My apologies for the lack of my presence after posting a request for info from you all ( you beautiful people). Unfortunately (or fortunately - the jury is still out) my wife's mom has just died. We had been putting up waifs and strays for Christmas. People who would have been on their own otherwise, and then this suddenly has come along. It's OK though as she wanted to go and was in her early 90's. It's also OK because my wife's OK about it. Anyway, that's why I have only just re-visited efests.
I would like to upvote all the posts other than my own, but can't.
I will now (out of appreciation) try to answer all of the above posts after my last post -one by one. This may not sound much, but if you were in my head you'd know just how tricky it'll be. Please do note that it may take some time to complete.
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Oh, and if I may go off on a kind of tangent on the star front, if you haven't seen this already, it's worth a watch
Right now to answer everyone in detail. Yikes!