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I struck out last night too, all the good ones were taken. One girl hit on me though, but she said she liked my hair, which meant she must be desperate, because my hair is shit.
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Ok I'm on a bit of a break from the ladies - mind you I always seem to be on a break from the ladies - I may have issues! but erm just wondering how many dates a year do you think is a good healthy amount? My idea is wait and she will come but I'm checking to see whether I should be more proactive.

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Well he called me on Monday and we chatted for about an hour. Not as bad as I thought- well, I had thought the whole day he was going to say he thought he liked me but didn't like me after all. He'd spoken to a mate about it all, who told him that it sounded like he was getting overwhelmed because this has all happened rather quickly, because he's used to being on his own and didn't know if he wanted a relationship he was now panicking. Which he said he agreed with.

Then we talked about the past and I set him straight on some stuff; mainly about why I ended things with him in the first place, and why a few years back I wanted to try again. It sucks because we spent a lot of the time assuming what the other one felt; he thought I was just going for a "safe" option and didn't want to be single when I'd really thought hard about asking him back out because it risked our friendship and I could've asked any ol bloke out if I'd not wanted to be single. I just assumed he didn't feel the way I did and never actually asked him the reason why he said no.

But yeah, it was good to get everything clear and in the open; from now he's going to think about if he wants this (oooo keep everything crossed!!) and if so then it's going to be a take things slowly deal. I haven't heard off him since Monday, but I'm leaving the contacting to him. If he wants time, then time it is because I really really really do not want to muck this up. I feel I'm at the last chance saloon with this one.

Complicated eh? Made even more so by me having a "secret identity" as it were, but the ex knows I come on here and he knows nothing about the new guy. He wouldn't get nasty, but just whiny and stuff which I could do without honestly. :) But I am a singles thread regular normally :P

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Goblinz Newbie

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You like men in uniforms then?

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Goblinz Newbie

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Oh now that's just wrong (my dad's a postman :D )
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I'm having to physically restrain myself from at least fifteen doublé entendres that have come rushing into my head. And I blame you Katster. Expecting a huge package to be delivered indeed ........

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Goblinz Newbie

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I'm sure was only suggesting that she is expecting some male mail to come.
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Text from the scary stalker bouncer man I thought I'd managed to get rid of:

Hey Kat, how are you today? I hope you are ok?! Sorry to text again but I am trying to forget you :D but I can't. Something special on you so can you please text me back and forgive me please.....Kat you don't know how much I like you....I like you tooooooooooo muchhhhhhhhhhhhh Xxxxxx
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Text from the scary stalker bouncer man I thought I'd managed to get rid of:

:D

I have snogged this guy once.

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Sorry to interupt, but I need a rant.

Friday is the first weekend night I've had off for a long time, so I phone around my mates and see who fancies a night out, like we always used to do. 1 mate is skint, which is fair enough, he's just home from a month away. Then there's three others who say "nah mate, staying in with my girlfriend", whilst it's annoyed me a bit, I can see why they would. But the one thing that has pissed me off is one of these guys has always said "mates before dates", "bro's before hoes" and all the other stupid sayings which basically mean he'd always be around for his mates before his missus, which is complete bollocks because not one of my mates have seen him for a month. This bloke has a bit of a history of saying one thing and meaning another. For example, he'll be saying to his mates "sorry, can't come out this weekend, bitch won't let me will she?", yet I know for a fact he's said to her "I don't fancy going out with my mates this weekend anyway, I want to stay with you".

I'm probably just being bitter that they've all got someone and I haven't, but even so, it's pissed me off. If they want to spend time with their other halves then fair enough, but why do they feel the need to make it out like they'd rather be with their mates as opposed to their girlfriend? It's quite obviously not true.

Like I said, it's probably me being bitter that I've got a night off and will be wasting it.

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