Katster Posted December 17, 2008 Report Share Posted December 17, 2008 Mr Cheese was rather embarrassed when I discussed his drunken antics with him last night. He has vowed never to get pissed around me again. Ahem, like I'd ever allow that to happen! Apparently, I shouldn't have given him sambucas when he was pissed, I should have made him drink coca cola or taken him home. Again, like that's ever going to happen! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Goblinz Posted December 17, 2008 Report Share Posted December 17, 2008 for the record I also chortled at that! gawd almighty this is a miserable thread sometimes though? what the hell is wrong with people, that they treat their other halves like that?! is it any wonder there are some who cauterise their hearts, mummify it, hide it from the world and end up as emotionless shells? Ah well. I'm happy. For now... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katster Posted December 17, 2008 Report Share Posted December 17, 2008 So it's your fault then! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Radar Posted December 17, 2008 Report Share Posted December 17, 2008 Just for the record I'm not an emotionless shell, I just don't trust women in ralationships. Come to think of it there's not many people that i will trust fully at all now, getting sick of people f**king around and beginning to see that the only person I can truely rely on is myself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rabid Posted December 17, 2008 Report Share Posted December 17, 2008 Mr Cheese was rather embarrassed when I discussed his drunken antics with him last night. He has vowed never to get pissed around me again. Ahem, like I'd ever allow that to happen! Apparently, I shouldn't have given him sambucas when he was pissed, I should have made him drink coca cola or taken him home. Again, like that's ever going to happen! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Goblinz Posted December 17, 2008 Report Share Posted December 17, 2008 No worries Gobz matey, I wasn't referring to anyone specifically! That said you have to trust women, even if it means getting f**ked over a few times. And you also have to trust your fellow humans generally because surprising though it may be, the vast majority of people aren't total arseholes... even if many are a little stupid, greedy or corrupt... ...Actually, tell me more about this manifesto of yours.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katster Posted December 17, 2008 Report Share Posted December 17, 2008 Sounds a bit like the Newcastle meet. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Radar Posted December 17, 2008 Report Share Posted December 17, 2008 The only person you can rely on in this world is yourself. If you let yourself down, you've only got yourself to blame. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Goblinz Posted December 17, 2008 Report Share Posted December 17, 2008 Balls! There wasn't a drop of sambuca bought by me at the Newcastle meet. I blame my older wiser better self..... The only person you can rely on in this world is yourself. If you let yourself down, you've only got yourself to blame. Just getting in a couple more cliches there, while I can. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katster Posted December 17, 2008 Report Share Posted December 17, 2008 I tend to partially blame myself when others let me down too... My fault for relying on them and not sorting whatever it is out for myself and not learning from mistakes made in the past. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Radar Posted December 17, 2008 Report Share Posted December 17, 2008 I sort myself out, it's much easier that way! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nightcrawler13 Posted December 17, 2008 Report Share Posted December 17, 2008 whoops lady friend came round last night, just before she was to leave she out right asked me "you know how i come round, and a couple times we had sex? will that be happening again?" .... i explained that if i was to instigate sex often, it would become a "thing" and therefore lead to serious feelings of one sort or another, which would lead to wanting of relationship style stuff, which i could not do as i have too much to do at this point in my life to take a massive chunk out of my time to be "a boyfriend", which then means i would be a shit boyfriend, and cause nothing but hurt in the long run..... she seemed pleased by this answer then we had sex whoops Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katster Posted December 17, 2008 Report Share Posted December 17, 2008 whoops lady friend came round last night, just before she was to leave she out right asked me "you know how i come round, and a couple times we had sex? will that be happening again?" .... i explained that if i was to instigate sex often, it would become a "thing" and therefore lead to serious feelings of one sort or another, which would lead to wanting of relationship style stuff, which i could not do as i have too much to do at this point in my life to take a massive chunk out of my time to be "a boyfriend", which then means i would be a shit boyfriend, and cause nothing but hurt in the long run..... she seemed pleased by this answer then we had sex whoops Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rabid Posted December 17, 2008 Report Share Posted December 17, 2008 Balls! There wasn't a drop of sambuca bought by me at the Newcastle meet. I blame my older wiser better self..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Goblinz Posted December 17, 2008 Report Share Posted December 17, 2008 *Bites tongue and waits for Sifi* Seriously though you can rely on people other than yourself, stop being bitter twisted and cynical, you're not old enough yet! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Radar Posted December 17, 2008 Report Share Posted December 17, 2008 It's not twisted and cynical, it's past experience. TBH there's still things from my last two realtionships that I need to know, and it's not trivial things, I'm not going to talk about it here it's things that i need to know and have a right to know. And yes, maybe this does make me not want to trust anyone in a relationship, but quite rightly so. People can be bastards, there's not many people in this world that have never done anything they shouldn't have in the past. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
applepie Posted December 17, 2008 Report Share Posted December 17, 2008 I tend to partially blame myself when others let me down too... My fault for relying on them and not sorting whatever it is out for myself and not learning from mistakes made in the past. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Radar Posted December 17, 2008 Report Share Posted December 17, 2008 I do the same. When someone lets me down I start to think about what I did wrong and and think I should never have trusted them anyway. One day I hope to learn from my past mistakes. Past relationships always affect the next one! In my experience anyway. I've been hurt and let down and can already feel myself not trusting people anymore. It's not by choice, cos I'm a naturally trusting person but I don't feel the same. Whenever a guy wants to talk to me now I wanna run away! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
applepie Posted December 17, 2008 Report Share Posted December 17, 2008 That may be so but they should not. Leave your baggage behind, fly free, love like you have never been hurt, and try to get as many clichés into your sentences as Katster! Oh and by the way I'm sorry to hear about your runaway issue Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Goblinz Posted December 17, 2008 Report Share Posted December 17, 2008 As they say in the world of banking, past experience is no indication of future performance Nobody asked you to divulge personal or sensitive experiences, so chillax (apologies for the "chillax" ) People can indeed be bastards but I still don't believe that being hurt by a few people should lead to you trusting nobody. Where does that get you? Where does that end? I think you can guess the answer to that... Just my perspective though, perhaps I've been more fortunate. Thus far... *touches wood* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Radar Posted December 17, 2008 Report Share Posted December 17, 2008 Umnn. I am "chillaxed", I'm very rarely anything but... Is a chillaxe a bit like an ice-pick? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Iloveslushes Posted December 18, 2008 Report Share Posted December 18, 2008 The religious one tricked me round to his last night (he wanted a lift with 'loads of stuff' from work but it was just a black bag which he could have easily walked the five minutes home with, then he said he had a little present for me inside - two boxes of Roses, the chocs, not flowers! to say thank you for painting his old house which he lived in a year ago) Anyway, he basically said he misses me terribly, and said he is torn between me and his religion. He more or less asked me if I'd consider becoming a Jehovah's Witness and came up with all these scenarios about me getting on like a house on fire with his mam if I was one, going on holidays (something he knew I really want, a holiday with a partner), him buying me flowers at the drop of a hat cos he is 'really romantic really', the possibility of me having a key to his flat.... Then he tried to bust some 'myths' about his religion, like they don't give all their money to the church, they do believe the world's going to end and tsunamis and things are kind of warnings, and they don't believe in blood transfusions but there are alternatives. He kinda scared me, but I also realised I missed him. Can't go back though. Where do I get these lads from?!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rabid Posted December 18, 2008 Report Share Posted December 18, 2008 (edited) Where do I get these lads from?!! Edited December 19, 2008 by rabid Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Millsy2008 Posted December 19, 2008 Report Share Posted December 19, 2008 i thought that only girls sent drunken texts at early o'clock after a night out.....but no i got one from a boy last nite at 2.30 clearly pished haha (not the ex btw not sure if im disappointed by that) still nice to get one anyway Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Goblinz Posted December 19, 2008 Report Share Posted December 19, 2008 The religious one tricked me round to his last night (he wanted a lift with 'loads of stuff' from work but it was just a black bag which he could have easily walked the five minutes home with, then he said he had a little present for me inside - two boxes of Roses, the chocs, not flowers! to say thank you for painting his old house which he lived in a year ago) Anyway, he basically said he misses me terribly, and said he is torn between me and his religion. He more or less asked me if I'd consider becoming a Jehovah's Witness and came up with all these scenarios about me getting on like a house on fire with his mam if I was one, going on holidays (something he knew I really want, a holiday with a partner), him buying me flowers at the drop of a hat cos he is 'really romantic really', the possibility of me having a key to his flat.... Then he tried to bust some 'myths' about his religion, like they don't give all their money to the church, they do believe the world's going to end and tsunamis and things are kind of warnings, and they don't believe in blood transfusions but there are alternatives. He kinda scared me, but I also realised I missed him. Can't go back though. Where do I get these lads from?!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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