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[Goblinz]

Bad news last night. Found out that my mate can't get a mortgage on the flat he's been rentin because the banks are cutting back due to that guy ripping them off for billions. Sounds trival but it's not good, the flat is our session house and belonged to my friend who is no longer with us and I#m not realyl happy about some strangers taking it over. Sounds a bit sentimental, but it's abook that I don't want closing. I suppose the house going would signify acceptance of how much my life has chaged...

Most of my close friends have moved away over the past few months and there's only really me and the guy who lives in the flat left from my immediate circle (in harrogate/Leeds). Getting rid of the flat is ultimately going to end my Harrogate social life as there's nowhere to go anymore. Sheffield's becoming bad, mainly due to mate down there getting a very boring and controlling girlfriend who tells hiom off for having funa nd has banned him from having parties or even too many people round his own flat. Sha also demands that they go home very early when we go out.

I'm starting to feel like the last person awake at a part, everyone else has gone to sleep and there's no-one left to entertain me. Seriously thinking about packing it all in, fully throwing myself in to my job, prolly get a hair cut and stop going out to the places where I go. It's the one thing that I know I could do well in at the moment, an oppertunity that I have that I've never done because I've been enjoying myself too much. Now there's jack going on elsewhere it sounds tempting.

Things are supposed to be getting better, it's months ago since I got the bad news about my mate, but it all seems to be still going down hill. Been a crap year really with one thing and another. Something bad happens and I think it can't get worse and then crunch, the next thing comes along.

Sorry, feeling a bit depressed today, not happy about things at all.

[Katster]

Bad news last night. Found out that my mate can't get a mortgage on the flat he's been rentin because the banks are cutting back due to that guy ripping them off for billions. Sounds trival but it's not good, the flat is our session house and belonged to my friend who is no longer with us and I#m not realyl happy about some strangers taking it over. Sounds a bit sentimental, but it's abook that I don't want closing. I suppose the house going would signify acceptance of how much my life has chaged...

Most of my close friends have moved away over the past few months and there's only really me and the guy who lives in the flat left from my immediate circle (in harrogate/Leeds). Getting rid of the flat is ultimately going to end my Harrogate social life as there's nowhere to go anymore. Sheffield's becoming bad, mainly due to mate down there getting a very boring and controlling girlfriend who tells hiom off for having funa nd has banned him from having parties or even too many people round his own flat. Sha also demands that they go home very early when we go out.

I'm starting to feel like the last person awake at a part, everyone else has gone to sleep and there's no-one left to entertain me. Seriously thinking about packing it all in, fully throwing myself in to my job, prolly get a hair cut and stop going out to the places where I go. It's the one thing that I know I could do well in at the moment, an oppertunity that I have that I've never done because I've been enjoying myself too much. Now there's jack going on elsewhere it sounds tempting.

Things are supposed to be getting better, it's months ago since I got the bad news about my mate, but it all seems to be still going down hill. Been a crap year really with one thing and another. Something bad happens and I think it can't get worse and then crunch, the next thing comes along.

Sorry, feeling a bit depressed today, not happy about things at all.

[rabid]

Bad news last night. Found out that my mate can't get a mortgage on the flat he's been rentin because the banks are cutting back due to that guy ripping them off for billions. Sounds trival but it's not good, the flat is our session house and belonged to my friend who is no longer with us and I#m not realyl happy about some strangers taking it over. Sounds a bit sentimental, but it's abook that I don't want closing. I suppose the house going would signify acceptance of how much my life has chaged...

Most of my close friends have moved away over the past few months and there's only really me and the guy who lives in the flat left from my immediate circle (in harrogate/Leeds). Getting rid of the flat is ultimately going to end my Harrogate social life as there's nowhere to go anymore. Sheffield's becoming bad, mainly due to mate down there getting a very boring and controlling girlfriend who tells hiom off for having funa nd has banned him from having parties or even too many people round his own flat. Sha also demands that they go home very early when we go out.

I'm starting to feel like the last person awake at a part, everyone else has gone to sleep and there's no-one left to entertain me. Seriously thinking about packing it all in, fully throwing myself in to my job, prolly get a hair cut and stop going out to the places where I go. It's the one thing that I know I could do well in at the moment, an oppertunity that I have that I've never done because I've been enjoying myself too much. Now there's jack going on elsewhere it sounds tempting.

Things are supposed to be getting better, it's months ago since I got the bad news about my mate, but it all seems to be still going down hill. Been a crap year really with one thing and another. Something bad happens and I think it can't get worse and then crunch, the next thing comes along.

Sorry, feeling a bit depressed today, not happy about things at all.

[Goblinz]

Sorry to hear you're feeling like that mate. I do know someone who has a place they're looking to get rid of.

Edited December 19, 2008 by Goblinz

[greenfairy43]

Sorry to hear you're feeling like that mate. I do know someone who has a place they're looking to get rid of.

[Paul ™]

Cant help thinking of this album.

Edited December 19, 2008 by Paul ™

[rabid]

I'm going to suggest "Plan C" tonight when I go round tonight...

[Iloveslushes]

Cant help thinking of this album.

[rabid]

Cheers!! You're right though.

There must be summat better out there.

[bunique]

The boy met the parents this weekend - first boy in 10 years I've chanced bringing home!

[Cardboard Box City]

The boy met the parents this weekend - first boy in 10 years I've chanced bringing home!

[bunique]

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[Millsy2008]

i got dumped on friday which was also my birthday, big up for the males of the speices my thinking was right all along, w**kers!

[Goblinz]

uh oh i did a terrible thing on saturday

[Millsy2008]

Did you get back together with him or just use him for a doink?

[Goblinz]

well, i was out for my works nite out friday and he phoned me bout 5 times, i just rubbered the phone then (was well chuffed i did) i was out for my old works night out and came out of a pub and he was standing outside, i walked passed and said hello and i thought he just ignored is, soooo i shouted a bit of abuse and about a hour later got a hold of his number text him and told him he a prick there was no need to ignore is, he bascially said what u talking about i didn't see u i wouldn't of ignored u blah blah so this went on for a couple of hours texting back n forth n I had a party back at mine after the nightclub n loads of ppl were there he ended up turning up etc!

surprisingly we probably got on better then we eva did before but i shuld neva have text him in the first place!!!!!!!!!! well annoyed with myself now lol

[Millsy2008]

Um.. yeh... that's a bit strange and hipocrytical. You ignore his calls and then criticize him for ignoring you. Did you invite him round to your party or mention it in a text message? TBH it sounds like you still want the guy, you wouldn't be acting like this if you didn't. If you don't want to have anything to do with him then delete his number and have done with it. Getting on and being friends is going to be very difficult if you're not over each other and will prolly end up in disaster.

[Goblinz]

its not that hypocritical he spent the last 5 months ignoring me wen he felt like it and dumped me on my birthday only becuz his mate feel out with me so i think me ignoring his calls at 3am on a saturday morning is not that bad! i said in my texts ppl were coming up to mine, he said do you want me to come up and i never replied 20 mintues later he was there!

i don't think we could be friends he a a manupliatvie nasty person in general and that is the attraction, keep um mean, i had deleted his number but i know it off by heart so its not that easy

[Millsy2008]

Sounds like you are your own worst enemy here. Letting him know that you have people round was a mistake, he could have taken this as an invite and you did have the oppertunity to tell him that you didn't want him round.

If you don't want to be friends or to have anything to do with him then don't call call him, text him or get upset with him not saying hello to you if he sees you. Put him out of your life and carry on with yours.

[-pogo-]

as is always the case easier said then done, he's horrible to me and i still like him, life is neva simple is it

[Millsy2008]

He sounds nasty, what's it about him that you like?

tbh I don't think I could be arsed with someone like that.

[Goblinz]

he is nasty bit of a bully really, plus the fact ppl always tell me im punching below my weight with him, but i have really nice guys that are asking me out and im just not interested, they don't do anything for me, its strange, this bloke is a challenge although he wears me down its like i have to try and make him like me thats keeping me interested????? im not really sure its doing my head in tho

[worm]

Relationships should not feel like an effort. If you feel that you deserve better than this guy then get better.

[Goblinz]

Rather casual!

[DaveMac]

he is nasty bit of a bully really, plus the fact ppl always tell me im punching below my weight with him, but i have really nice guys that are asking me out and im just not interested, they don't do anything for me, its strange, this bloke is a challenge although he wears me down its like i have to try and make him like me thats keeping me interested????? im not really sure its doing my head in tho

Edited December 23, 2008 by DaveMac