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[Goblinz]

Hey there everyone!

I need some supermassive good advice on this....

I went out the eve of chrimbo eve with a good friend of mine I havent seen for ages.

Basically we got really drunk and when it came to the end of the night, we ended up having a heated kiss and....well...cant say the rest in a message! but I stopped it saying that she didnt want it as she was so drunk. she then staggered around a bit and then said i want to go home.

I didnt want her going home alone so I basically made damn sure she got in a taxi to get home.

I didnt get a txt saying she got home ok the next day so was totally freaked out by it, I txt her 3 times asking if she was ok. I eventually got a txt saying im fine merry xmas babe X and I havent heard from her since then after ive text her a couple of times.

I now dont want to come across as a complete idiot and am worried ive pretty much broke her heart as she thinks I wasnt interested...far from it, it was a complete surprise, and if I knew the feelings were genuine I would definitely follow them up.

So now I dont know what to do her, call her and see how she is, or just leave it as shes not replying to my txts (could be busy who knows!)

any ideas?

PS.....Ahhhh!!

[Peevis]

Call her and ask her out for dinner or something. If she's not interested then you could pass it off as mates going out.

[bealster]

Plus, next time she wants a portion. Let her have it!

I mean, she is either wishing it hadn't happened, and you can just put it all down to drink, or she thinks you weren't interested, in which case I think you KNOW what to do, Lover-boy!

[Chocscoffer]

I'd definately give her a call and ask if she fancies going out for a drink (not the amount you had last time though!). If she is still being cagey or ignoring your txt's then i'd ask if everything is alright between the two of you and make it clear that you didn't want to take things further the otheer night because she was too drunk and you respect her too much for that.

[Peevis]

I'd definately give her a call and ask if she fancies going out for a drink (not the amount you had last time though!). If she is still being cagey or ignoring your txt's then i'd ask if everything is alright between the two of you and make it clear that you didn't want to take things further the otheer night because she was too drunk and you respect her too much for that.

[bealster]

I'd definately give her a call and ask if she fancies going out for a drink (not the amount you had last time though!). If she is still being cagey or ignoring your txt's then i'd ask if everything is alright between the two of you and make it clear that you didn't want to take things further the otheer night because she was too drunk and you respect her too much for that.

[rabid]

What would you guys and gals do/think if somebody of the same sex made a move on you and you weren't that way inclined?

[Goblinz]

I was approached by a young man in a Tesco Extra carpark (you can get everything there ). I was honest and open with him and told him I was on my way to score some drugs. He virtually ran away.

[Paul ™]

Wow, Tesco sell drugs and cock-fun, that really is extra!

[rabid]

Wow, Tesco sell drugs and cock-fun, that really is extra!

[bunique]

You're a braver man than me.

[Paul ™]

I'd actually got on the wrong Metro because I was really pissed, but I couldn't fault the service.

You're a braver man than me.

[nightcrawler13]

a girl i had a fling with a few years ago wants to come and see me on friday...

she is HOT, being a bit flirty, but i know she has a boyfriend in canada (they met whilst shes been in Oz for the last 2 years)

i hate my mind being messed with

[worm]

a girl i had a fling with a few years ago wants to come and see me on friday...

she is HOT, being a bit flirty, but i know she has a boyfriend in canada (they met whilst shes been in Oz for the last 2 years)

i hate my mind being messed with

[carley]

Well, mr.sulky hasn't contacted me at all over xmas, or in the couple of weeks leading up to it. Everyone seems to have commented on this, even my mother, and not in the positive. They all basically say sod him. Even my mother again, who has gone as far to say "If someone else shows an interest in you, don't you put them off because of him". Yowzers. I did send an ickle text xmas day, but nada back.

But then, I have been kinda seeing a co-worker for a couple of weeks. Things happened at the xmas work party (as they do!) and we've been for a few post-work drinkies, and spent about 5 hours in the pub on xmas eve, which makes us sound like a couple of alcoholics, but we really didn't get much drinking done (if you get my drift!). Anyway, we're going on a proper shindig tomorrow night, drinks, dinner and a trip to the cinema and I can say with 100% certainty, I am definetely getting some!

[sadwitch]

bealster- sounds like she's massively embarrassed and wants to pretend it never happened.

[Goblinz]

bealster- sounds like she's massively embarrassed and wants to pretend it never happened.

Edited December 30, 2008 by Goblinz

[worm]

Stop whinging and get a shag. Failing that, burn your ex.

[bealster]

Aha, the harbinger of disappointment!

It could go either way. Prolly best to talk to her about it. Even if you do tell her you like her and she doesn't feel the same way, you've shown her that she can trust you and it doesn't have to effect your friendship.

[Goblinz]

Think it's a bit weird that you've planned a text message and then got people to proof read it.

Why not just tell her the truth, that you quite like her but didn't want to carry things on the other night as you didn't know if she really wanted you like that and didn't want to risk your frendship for the sake of one drunken night.

[Chocscoffer]

Sounds like a good reply (even if it's a bit long winded!). However, if you actually wouldn't mind something happening between you then I would put something to that effect in there.

[treacle]

I called her last night and left a VM, no reply I know she put on her facebook shes gone back to london due to embarrasment....man I feel proper guilty now!

Im going to send this txt new yrs eve/day and see what she says...anyone think this is a good one? (exuse the capitals, I got a friend to edit it!)

Happy New Year!!!

Hope you have a good NEW year.

New year is about moving on and I would like to put (THAT) EVENING IN THE PAST

TO BE HONEST IT did take me by surprise, AND I enjoyed it. I didn't mean to end it abruptly, I did it as I was worried that one of us might do something

we might regret in the morning, NOT BECAUSE I DIDN’T WANT TO BE WITH YOU, PLUS I RESPECT YOU A LOT MORE TO TREAT YOU A BIT BETTER THAN MOST.

THINK YOU ARE A SOUND GIRL WHO WOULD DO A GUY PROUD.

IF YOU THINK IM AN IDIOT THAN THAT’S COOL, JUST DON’T HATE ME FOREVER AS I WOULD HATE THAT

HOPE TO SEE YOU AGAIN FOR A LONDON MUSICAL OR SOMETHING IN THE NEW YR?

ANT X

[Iloveslushes]

Hate this time of year. Seemed to be crying non-stop for over an hour for no particular reason yesterday. It seems to be made worse after hearing an ex I was seeing two years ago got married last week. No point going over old ground again but everytime I think of couples at this time of year it seems to go back to him. I keep wondering, as it took them a relatively short time to get married, was he seeing her when I was with him... But it's not just about him, I just cannot bear the thought of anything remotely coupley right now. Even when I think of what one of my mates is doing tonight for New Year, she has probably gone somewhere nice like Barcelona to see it in. All I can think of is why don't I get the nice things and nice breaks away? Pathetic I know... Doesn't help when 'friends' take at least a day to reply to texts lately.

I'm starting to think the Jehovah's Witnesses is an option....

[Goblinz]

Hate this time of year. Seemed to be crying non-stop for over an hour for no particular reason yesterday. It seems to be made worse after hearing an ex I was seeing two years ago got married last week. No point going over old ground again but everytime I think of couples at this time of year it seems to go back to him. I keep wondering, as it took them a relatively short time to get married, was he seeing her when I was with him... But it's not just about him, I just cannot bear the thought of anything remotely coupley right now. Even when I think of what one of my mates is doing tonight for New Year, she has probably gone somewhere nice like Barcelona to see it in. All I can think of is why don't I get the nice things and nice breaks away? Pathetic I know... Doesn't help when 'friends' take at least a day to reply to texts lately.

I'm starting to think the Jehovah's Witnesses is an option....

[Iloveslushes]

Stop contradicting yourself! If you can't bear the thought of anything remotely coupley then yuo should steer clear of the Jo-ho. Getting with him just so you aren't alone would be really unfair on him too.

Have you not got plans for new years? There will be a party going on somewhere surely? There'll be some good TV on anyway, if not then come down to Sheffield and I'll feed you beer!