singles thread

[worm]

My girlio

[Peevis]

Erm I am aware of that. She'd be the same mind, she worries. So frankly if she can show the same understanding towards me that I do towards her there's no problem anyway! And there isn't - but ta for your thoughts

I know this to be true hombre but put it this way I've not been this happy in over a year, so cut me some slack if I tremble a little at the idea of shit hitting fan

[worm]

I like going out with someone who isn't a c**t.

Edited February 27, 2009 by worm

[Goblinz]

What women think is a c**t and what men think is a c**t are two seperate things. This is where we find the problem, you see.

A women's expectancy is what defines good and bad male behaviour from a feminine perspective. So, an experienced male understanding this idealisation very clearly (having gone through the age of innocence bearing scars) then compensates for it by realising that this emasculated and ideal notion of a man gets you nowhere. So, the more astute of cats decide to indulge the more masculine approach known in feminine discourse as 'the c**t'. And so we free ourselves from the binds of trying to be disingeniously nice, which you lot then mistake as being sagely, experienced, distinctive, succesful, independent and edgy thinking you are attracted to 'mature' men. When in reality you are attracted to seasoned vetarans who have withstood the ravages of many a female by being a c**t.

Essentially, you like experienced men who have been shaped by experiences with other women. The more, the merrier. The more scarred, the better. Otherwise, we're dull and inexperienced. As Wilde once said 'A man wishes to be a woman's first love, a woman wishes to be a man's final romance'.

Sleep tight slags!

[Katster]

A women's expectancy

[Peevis]

A woman's.

Plus, you can't tar us all with the same brush. I don't want a c**t.

[Katster]

Sawe a thingy on telly. which proved this point rather well.

The trick to pulling (and this was tested and proved on women just as strong willed as you Miss Kat! )

and wait singlermenn 'cos this good shit.

The trick is, disagree with everything they say for as long as you can get away with and switch to agreeing. The longer you can get her to hang about whilst dissing all her ideas, before switching to Mr Agreeable, the nicer she'll think you are. A balancing act of course, as the timing of the change is important.

But it proves to me that however you define "c**t" all women want a chap who knows his mind, and will stand up for what he believes in!

It's no big suprise, this is what I find attractive in girls too!

[Peevis]

That wouldn't work for me. I'd prefer him to continue disagreeing with me....that would prove he knew his mind and would stand up for what he believed in far more than if he eventually came round to my way of thinking.

Edited February 27, 2009 by Peevis

[Radar]

Seems you will be happily wet together then.

Bless your cotton speedos!

[Katster]

Sorry Kat, but to me you are the perfect candiate.

it doesn't work if you know what you are doing. You have to be subtle. But done well you could be convinced that not only does this chap "knew his mind and would stand up for what he believed" but also you both beleieve the same thing.

Trust me, if it;s done well, you'd not even notice it. It's more than no, no, no. no. no, yes, yes... It makes you think his passions are your passions!

Not that you loved up types need to worry. I do find it interesting though.

[Peevis]

But I have a memory like an elephant. The minute he switched his opinion I'd pull him up about it. Same as blokes who say things because they know you think that about something, then let their guard down a few months later and end up dropping themselves right in it.

It is interesting, and all a bit bonkers really.

[Katster]

You can see how the process could lead you to think.. "ooh here's a chap who knows his own mind... followed by ooh we have so much in common too!

[Goblinz]

Where did RaBun go?

[Radar]

Where did RaBun go?

[Goblinz]

Last logged in 12DEC2008. Anybody still in touch with her? i don't like it when people just disappear.

[Radar]

Last logged in 12DEC2008. Anybody still in touch with her? i don't like it when people just disappear.

[worm]

Plus, you can't tar us all with the same brush. I don't want a c**t.

Edited February 27, 2009 by worm

[Goblinz]

What have I just said?!?!

That what women deem a c**t is not the same as what men deem a c**t. You see, as I tried so very hard to explain there, is that women see men in terms of idealisation, whereas men see men in terms of being. In that they are men and can see how women idealise them, thus match who they are to what the ideal is. Women can never see this as they are never at any point being men.

[worm]

That's making a huge generalisation, nice to see that at lest one bloke knows what women want.

[Radar]

Hardly. Women don't know what it is to be a male c**t. That's it essentially.

[worm]

I would suggest that there is not a great deal of difference between my perception of a male who is a c**t, and what women see as a male who is a c**t.

[Lithium05]

Anyine care to explain why I've had to rescue this thread from page 3? Has everyone paired up and f*cked off in my absense?!

Anyway, still single nothing major to report, getting kind of bored with single life now, but its been so long confidence is somewhere around the zero mark... not really sure what I have to offer, apart from the chat up line "hey my job's recession proof"

Off out tonight and planning on trying something unheard of for me, going to a rock club and not wearing a band t-shirt, figured maybe confidence can manifest itself if I'm looking more mature

[Katster]

Women can either like or dislike.

[Lithium05]

Ah but I fear Ive become too single!

Seriously all i want is someone go to gigs/movies with (going on your own feels sad if you have to do it too often!), I dont want a "5 year plan" of engagement, marriage and kids! Im 24 and as Ive said on here before all of my friends are either married, engaged or practically married/engaged. They're all too busy saving for houses, holidays and weddings to throw money away spending time with their old pal Adam (me)

What annoys me is how scared most of them are of being alone. Case in point, a fortnight ago we went out for a combined birthday for me and my best mate. Day went fine - started around 1, headed into London, had a meal... but it got to half 8 and my mate (whose birthday it was)'s girlfriend and around half the other people there decided they wanted to go home. I was fine with this and my mate and I planned to stay out, his gf threw a bit of a strop and let the other people leave so she could then play the "if i leave now I have to go on my own if you dont come with me" card. Luckily I saw this coming and countered that play by calling the others who left and getting them to come back for her.

After she left my mate suddenly looked like a weight had been lifted off his shoulders and for the first time that day he actually seemed to be enjoying himself. Long story short when we got on the train home about midnight, he got a text and was ordered to go home as soon as he got back (the rest of us were heading to a local pub for more drinks) and he suddenly got all depressed again.

I dont understand why people stay with people that make them so unhappy, not to mention try to stop them spending time with their mates on their birthday.

Edited March 6, 2009 by Lithium05

[Goblinz]

Ah but I fear Ive become too single!

Seriously all i want is someone go to gigs/movies with (going on your own feels sad if you have to do it too often!),......

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