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A little while back I mentioned on here that a friend of mine appeared to be interested in being more than friends, something that doesnt interest me as I believe in keeping friends as friends and pursuing romantic interests outside of my circle of friends, something that none of my other friends believe in (the groups become so incestual it's ridiculous)

Anyway back to the point, she showed interest, but then next time I saw her she ended up getting off with someone else, I was relieved, ecstatic even that perhaps I had been wrong and misread the whole situation... next time I saw her she got a bit friendly again, but then went home before I could have a word about it. On friday night I saw her for the first time in a while, and was so hammered I thought the best course of action would not be to tell her I wasn't interested (which I'm not) but instead when she was leaving I thought an overly friendly good night kiss would be a much better way to say "sorry I'm not really interested in you in that way"

To reiterate, I'm a complete tool and should not be allowed to drink alcohol.

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Well...

A little while back I mentioned on here that a friend of mine appeared to be interested in being more than friends, something that doesnt interest me as I believe in keeping friends as friends and pursuing romantic interests outside of my circle of friends, something that none of my other friends believe in (the groups become so incestual it's ridiculous)

Anyway back to the point, she showed interest, but then next time I saw her she ended up getting off with someone else, I was relieved, ecstatic even that perhaps I had been wrong and misread the whole situation... next time I saw her she got a bit friendly again, but then went home before I could have a word about it. On friday night I saw her for the first time in a while, and was so hammered I thought the best course of action would not be to tell her I wasn't interested (which I'm not) but instead when she was leaving I thought an overly friendly good night kiss would be a much better way to say "sorry I'm not really interested in you in that way"

To reiterate, I'm a complete tool and should not be allowed to drink alcohol.

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What he said!

Though I'm wondering now, there is an ambiguity there - are you saying you drunkenly snogged her because you were drunk and foolish?

Also are you really saying there is no attraction - surely there must be or you wouldn't have?

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Yes of course men and women can be just friends. It's quite tragic if you can't I think.

Lithium- yeah I can see that getting involved with a friend is a bit risky but you shouldn't rule it out just because all the rest of your friends are dullards. If you really regret your drunken actions I'd do some damage limitation if I were you.

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If you really regret your drunken actions I'd do some damage limitation if I were you.
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I love nate!!

American boys are lovely. I met a very sexy American boy last week. We've been texting and stuff but clearly its pointless as he is now 4000 miles away. He has the sexiest tattoos ever. :)

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It's OK as long as you think they're old enough. :huh:
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What does it mean if a lad who always tells you too much about his relationships and you tell him too much about yours, who seemingly heartbroken about a split, asks you to put that you're in a relationship with him on facebook, only temporarily, in response to finding out his ex's status has changed to in a relationship with someone on said site? I refused of course, would have taken a hell of a lot of explaining to a certain someone.

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Means nowt, he wants to make his ex jealous and has nothing to do with you really - except that you're the female friend most likely to accede to his plan?
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