singles thread

[sifi]

The idea of you not seeing that I'm taking the piss amuses me too.

Edited September 21, 2009 by sifimaster

[worm]

So you don't want me to keep to the original theme of the thread.

[sifi]

Do what you like. I don't care.

[Atlanteanlost]

Is single again...............because she was a procrastinating idiot who took days to decide things and I got bored

[rachbon]

No it isn't. Pining after someone who has been gone for a few days is certainly nto how it ought to be. Grow a backbone you sappy lot! Though it winds me up less if it's a woman, blokes whinging about their other halves being gone for a few days get on my nerves, my mate didn't go to a gig for a band he likes once because he was upset his GF was away on business for 2 weeks

[Katster]

So by 1 o'clock this morning I was getting pretty worried....I'd not heard from him for a full 24 hours so I called him and there was no answer and then I got really worried.

Until he text me at 2am and said 'sorry, I went out early today and have only just got in, I left my phone at the hotel'

'Been anywhere nice then?' I ask him.

'Yeah, just been sat round the pool all day'.

The little f**ker!! He'd made it sound like he'd been OUT out, not just too lazy to walk from the pool back to his hotel room to text little old me

That'll teach me to worry!

[Goblinz]

No it isn't. Pining after someone who has been gone for a few days is certainly nto how it ought to be. Grow a backbone you sappy lot! Though it winds me up less if it's a woman, blokes whinging about their other halves being gone for a few days get on my nerves, my mate didn't go to a gig for a band he likes once because he was upset his GF was away on business for 2 weeks

[Langdale Wolf]

My wife is going to Cardiff on Saturday night for a girly night with her best friend. It'll be the first time either of us have been away from the baby for a whole night.

I can't wait. A blokey day with the lad awaits, then I'll chuck him in his cot at bedtime, then the boys are coming over for video games, beers and takeaway curry. Bring it on!!

The resulting hangover will be described as 'heartache after being left alone for over 24 hours'.

[brighteyes]

My wife is going to Cardiff on Saturday night for a girly night with her best friend. It'll be the first time either of us have been away from the baby for a whole night.

[Katster]

I spoke to my bloke properly on the phone last night which was nice, got a few worries cleared up. The reason he hasn't text so much is because he leaves his phone in the hotel room because he knows he's a pisspot and would hate to lose his phone and then not be able to contact me AT ALL. And I agreed that I was being a daft sod the other day.

He's not very well at the moment, he thinks he's got sunstroke....

I can't wait for him to come home, what a lovely birthday present it will be having him back

[brighteyes]

I suck at girl retention. But easily fulfilled my ambition of pulling a girl born in the 90's. 91, in fact. And she was hot. Woo! HELP ME

[brighteyes]

I suck at girl retention. But easily fulfilled my ambition of pulling a girl born in the 90's. 91, in fact. And she was hot. Woo! HELP ME

[ampersand]

woo! HELP ME

[Lithium05]

*Bump*

I have an issue and I can't be arsed starting a new thread about it and this thread is as close to appropriate as any, so:

My mate's being an arse. He's been seeing a girl for six months now and prior to this was adament that he wouldn't become "one of those couples" (the type that stop socializing with their mates in favour of nights in etc) This is the same guuy who I got a free Download ticket and then didn't see him for the rest of the weekend because he was with his GF the whole time, I grudgingly accepted that was down to the relationship being pretty new, 4 months down the line it's gotten worse.

A few weeks ago I had a "lads night" round mine that I'd laid out "rules" to (all who attend must be drinking, no driving unless you stay over, no leaving until after 2am etc.) Everyone who attended (about 15!) agreed to these rules, even the married ones, all apart from this one guy who left at 11.30 having driven round at 9, and he left because "he's promised his GF's parents he'd look after her and their house while they were on holiday". Does that mean they wouldn't have gone away if she was single?! She's 24 for f*cks sake!

Another "incident" has already occured prior to (albeit the worst ever organised) a stag do this saturday*, for which he's already said he's planning on only planning on being out for around 1-2 hours.

Now while this all may seem pretty innocent this is a total contrast to character prior to having a gf, and frankly, having told me if he ever starts acting like a dick about anything to tell him, I'm considering doing just that, but I fear that despite being one of my best friends he's going to take it badly. I've discussed this with some other friends who think i should definately have a word, and while I don't think what I've writted above does the story justice I'd like to know what you think, so.... opinions?

*One of our friends got married a few weeks ago without having a stag-do, we're rectifying the situation this weekend, but it's been organised by his gay best man (one of my best friends so don't think I'm prejudice!) and another friend who's fiance runs his life, and as such would appear to be pulling the strings (despite not knowing the married guy, her brother's coming for some reason - my guess would be to watch so he doesn't misbehave) It seems to have turned in to more of a hen night than a stag do. It's gone from being a weekend in portsmouth (guy who's fiance runs his life forbid him from it so plan chanced) to day trip to London (shot down because apparently they have clubs where ladies take off their clothes in London ), to a night out in Guildford. Yippee

I hate my friends lack of balls

[Katster]

*Bump*

I have an issue and I can't be arsed starting a new thread about it and this thread is as close to appropriate as any, so:

My mate's being an arse. He's been seeing a girl for six months now and prior to this was adament that he wouldn't become "one of those couples" (the type that stop socializing with their mates in favour of nights in etc) This is the same guuy who I got a free Download ticket and then didn't see him for the rest of the weekend because he was with his GF the whole time, I grudgingly accepted that was down to the relationship being pretty new, 4 months down the line it's gotten worse.

A few weeks ago I had a "lads night" round mine that I'd laid out "rules" to (all who attend must be drinking, no driving unless you stay over, no leaving until after 2am etc.) Everyone who attended (about 15!) agreed to these rules, even the married ones, all apart from this one guy who left at 11.30 having driven round at 9, and he left because "he's promised his GF's parents he'd look after her and their house while they were on holiday". Does that mean they wouldn't have gone away if she was single?! She's 24 for f*cks sake!

Another "incident" has already occured prior to (albeit the worst ever organised) a stag do this saturday*, for which he's already said he's planning on only planning on being out for around 1-2 hours.

Now while this all may seem pretty innocent this is a total contrast to character prior to having a gf, and frankly, having told me if he ever starts acting like a dick about anything to tell him, I'm considering doing just that, but I fear that despite being one of my best friends he's going to take it badly. I've discussed this with some other friends who think i should definately have a word, and while I don't think what I've writted above does the story justice I'd like to know what you think, so.... opinions?

*One of our friends got married a few weeks ago without having a stag-do, we're rectifying the situation this weekend, but it's been organised by his gay best man (one of my best friends so don't think I'm prejudice!) and another friend who's fiance runs his life, and as such would appear to be pulling the strings (despite not knowing the married guy, her brother's coming for some reason - my guess would be to watch so he doesn't misbehave) It seems to have turned in to more of a hen night than a stag do. It's gone from being a weekend in portsmouth (guy who's fiance runs his life forbid him from it so plan chanced) to day trip to London (shot down because apparently they have clubs where ladies take off their clothes in London ), to a night out in Guildford. Yippee

I hate my friends lack of balls

[Rufus Gwertigan]

*Bump*

I have an issue and I can't be arsed starting a new thread about it and this thread is as close to appropriate as any, so:

My mate's being an arse. He's been seeing a girl for six months now and prior to this was adament that he wouldn't become "one of those couples" (the type that stop socializing with their mates in favour of nights in etc) This is the same guuy who I got a free Download ticket and then didn't see him for the rest of the weekend because he was with his GF the whole time, I grudgingly accepted that was down to the relationship being pretty new, 4 months down the line it's gotten worse.

A few weeks ago I had a "lads night" round mine that I'd laid out "rules" to (all who attend must be drinking, no driving unless you stay over, no leaving until after 2am etc.) Everyone who attended (about 15!) agreed to these rules, even the married ones, all apart from this one guy who left at 11.30 having driven round at 9, and he left because "he's promised his GF's parents he'd look after her and their house while they were on holiday". Does that mean they wouldn't have gone away if she was single?! She's 24 for f*cks sake!

[Goblinz]

Tell him to grow some. Remind him that he said to have a word and do so.

[Katster]

mm So you don't think that he should rather be at home shagging his girlfriend ?

[Radar]

The thing is, I wouldn't want my fella to ALWAYS choose me over something else he wanted to 'do'.

On the other hand, I'd be a bit put out if he ALWAYS chose doing something else over doing me.

[Rufus Gwertigan]

The thing is, I wouldn't want my fella to ALWAYS choose me over something else he wanted to 'do'.

On the other hand, I'd be a bit put out if he ALWAYS chose doing something else over doing me.

[Peevis]

The mistake you are making is thinking what you want should have any bearing on how he acts.

He's free to do what he thinks, even what his Missus tells him too if he wants. ONly thing you can do by discussing this is push him further under the thumb of his girl...

Edited September 30, 2009 by Peevis

[Rufus Gwertigan]

The mistake you are making is thinking what you want should have any bearing on how he acts.

He's free to do what he think, so even what his Missus tells him too if he wants. ONly thing you can do by discussing this is push him further under the thumb of his girl...

[Katster]

The mistake you are making is thinking what you want should have any bearing on how he acts.

He's free to do what he think, so even what his Missus tells him too if he wants. ONly thing you can do by discussing this is push him further under the thumb of his girl...

[Langdale Wolf]

At the end of the day, people always say 'if/when I ever couple up, I'll never do x and y' but no-one really knows how they'll act. It also depends on the girl they meet.

If he's happy, great. But have a quiet word, without seeming to make a big deal out of it. He'll do what's right for him and his missus. You may be important to him, but now he'll have other priorities.

And she just might be EXCEPTIONALLY dirty, in which case fair play to him. He's probably exhausted.

[Katster]

Hang on we don't know that. He is staying at his girlfriends home whilst the parents are are away, yet he still made the effort to go to Lithiums. It seems like he is attempting to please everyone to me.