what to do....the girlfriend...

[RossTC]

So heres the thing, went to 08 with my gf and had a wicked time though this year she fancied going with her friends as there was only 2 girls in our group last year and found it abit too much with all my mates about. So its cool we agree i will go with my usual friends and she goes with hers and we meet up daily and do our own thing when we want.

But last week we have the mother of all barneys, it was in front of people aswell and really hurt us both quite abit. Since then we've been keeping our distance from each other which is odd enough as we are usually inseperable. But now going into glasto with this im worried its going to totally ruin it for me. I look forward to glasto more than any other thing in the year and atm i feel no excitement. Just empty about whats happened and how its going to effect us at the fest. Knowing she will be there and not spending time with her will hurt.

What do i do now?

bloody women!!!

[Kelly]

Glastonbury will be the perfect place to make up. Neither of you will fail to be caught up in the excitement and when you see each other you'll realise life's too short to be arguing.

So, don't stress now and just concentrate on getting there. Arrange to meet meet her somewhere quiet (ish) and make up :-)

[travelling mr pastry]

sleep with her sister?

[Kelly]

sleep with her sister?

[travelling mr pastry]

and you'll have f**ked her sister and thats something atleast

[Trixibell]

No chance you can make up with her before the festival?

have you spoken to her? she might feel the same

its worth a shot, surely

failing that just go and be nice when you see her

[GEH007]

Get a grip and man up?

[StevieF]

http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/deidre/

You're welcome.

[Runner]

Arrange to meet her 'now' and try to agree that no matter what was said, it will not ruin Glastonbury. I have a similar thing with my Ex Husband!!! Things are ok, but there is still the odd 'situation'. But we've agreed to not let any of it ruin Glastonbury for us and our mates.

It's an amazing experience, has cost quite a lot of money and shouldn't be ruined by certain situations in life that you will barely remember a few years down the line ... but the Glastonbury memories will never fade

Seriously, if I can go with my Ex 7 months after we split because he'd been having an affair for over a year, I'm sure you can sort this out

Peace x

edit ... this is from a 'womens' point of view ...

Edited June 22, 2009 by Runner

[mashy]

Why not spend the whole Festival together and not with each of your group of friends.

Then you will at least find out if the relationship is strong and worth saving or not.

AND if it all goes wrong then at least you have your mates there at the Fest and they will soon cheer you up.

[Trixibell]

Arrange to meet her 'now' and try to agree that no matter what was said, it will not ruin Glastonbury. I have a similar thing with my Ex Husband!!! Things are ok, but there is still the odd 'situation'. But we've agreed to not let any of it ruin Glastonbury for us and our mates.

It's an amazing experience, has cost quite a lot of money and shouldn't be ruined by certain situations in life that you will barely remember a few years down the line ... but the Glastonbury memories will never fade

Seriously, if I can go with my Ex 7 months after we split because he'd been having an affair for over a year, I'm sure you can sort this out

Peace x

edit ... this is from a 'womens' point of view ...

[Runner]

Fair play to you

i couldnt do that.

thank god its a big festival is my way of handling it

hope you have an ace festival

Edited June 22, 2009 by Runner

[heidisuperhero]

it wouldn't be fair if EITHER of you were to hold a grudge against the other - especially not at glastonbury. in the words of another, barneys are forgotten, glasto memories never fade.

glastonbury is, thankfully, a big enough place to not bump into your "other" all weekend, but to save unnecessary heart ache i would aim to have words with her and express your worries that glastonbury might be spoilt for both of you if things don't get sorted.

[travelling mr pastry]

edit ... this is from a 'womens' point of view ...

[heidisuperhero]

it wouldn't be fair if EITHER of you were to hold a grudge against the other - especially not at glastonbury. in the words of another, barneys are forgotten, glasto memories never fade.

glastonbury is, thankfully, a big enough place to not bump into your "other" all weekend, but to save unnecessary heart ache i would aim to have words with her and express your worries that glastonbury might be spoilt for both of you if things don't get sorted.

[travelling mr pastry]

it sounds to me like she'll probably still be pissed off at you and will start noticing all those little things she hated about you but chose to ignore, she will resent you more and more over the festival and will then decide that she cant continue with the relationship anymore. anyway have a fun time!

[TheBoyInTheBubble]

When you see her, say in a concerned manner "have you been weighed today?". Then when she says no, pinch her arse and shout "Waaaaaay!!! You have now". If she laughs, you're back in the game; if she doesn't laugh you know you've got your work cut out so you might as well have fun.

It's an all-or-nothing thing, but I like a gamble.

[RossTC]

Thank you for the helpful comments so far im taking note...

The other comments, ummm not very glasto spirited of you!!

[toooldtoknowbetter]

Apologise, make up, get it sorted.

Don't let a row ruin your relationship or your Glastonbury.

If you love her, tell her that, and get it sorted out.

You know it makes sense.

(DOI: 29 years together, plenty of rows, none fatal)

[Jens Wildman]

So heres the thing, went to 08 with my gf and had a wicked time though this year she fancied going with her friends as there was only 2 girls in our group last year and found it abit too much with all my mates about. So its cool we agree i will go with my usual friends and she goes with hers and we meet up daily and do our own thing when we want.

But last week we have the mother of all barneys, it was in front of people aswell and really hurt us both quite abit. Since then we've been keeping our distance from each other which is odd enough as we are usually inseperable. But now going into glasto with this im worried its going to totally ruin it for me. I look forward to glasto more than any other thing in the year and atm i feel no excitement. Just empty about whats happened and how its going to effect us at the fest. Knowing she will be there and not spending time with her will hurt.

What do i do now?

bloody women!!!

[travelling mr pastry]

have you tried dedicating shit tunes to her on facebook along with cheesy lines like "you dont know what until its gone" and just generally being a knob? i hear that helps

[krisskross]

it sounds to me like she'll probably still be pissed off at you and will start noticing all those little things she hated about you but chose to ignore, she will resent you more and more over the festival and will then decide that she cant continue with the relationship anymore. anyway have a fun time!

[Abbathehorse]

it sounds to me like she'll probably still be pissed off at you and will start noticing all those little things she hated about you but chose to ignore, she will resent you more and more over the festival and will then decide that she cant continue with the relationship anymore. anyway have a fun time!

[travelling mr pastry]

You're a proper prick aren't you

[Trixibell]

have you tried dedicating shit tunes to her on facebook along with cheesy lines like "you dont know what until its gone" and just generally being a knob? i hear that helps