singles thread

[kingjamma]

last nite i lost teh yellow container from a kinder egg in zooeys foof

but we'd already built the toy so it was ok

[rachbon]

I talked to our mutual best friend about it last night, lots of tears were involved. He basically said that the frisky housemate knew he didn't want a relationship, and so felt the need to sabotage it before it got too serious. The thing our mutual friend couldn't understand is why frisky thought it was okay to tell boys not to bother chatting me up, but to have some random girl in his bed, like he didn't want me but no one else could have me. Either way, my plan is to sort it all out and go back to being friends because I'm sick of being messed about.

that's what it seems like.

if he didn't want a relationship, he should have made that clear from the start, rather than just taking what he wanted then acting like a dick to stop if from turning into something.

at least you've made a decision now and can meet other guys without him being in the way, annoying you.

if a piglet and tiger can, then two girls can!

that is the cutest thing i've ever seen!

[kingjamma]

that is the cutest thing i've ever seen!

If you think that's the cutest thing ever, I reckon you should watch this. Always brings a massive smile to my face

[rachbon]

is that really a pig? it doesn't look like one.

nah, the spooning was cuter! i don't like monkeys, they're horrible.

[kingjamma]

Yeah I believe it is, either a baby or one of them teacup pigs.

Ah I love monkeys, especially that cute little baby one. I think the song really helps the video for me as well

[rabid]

if a piglet and tiger can, then two girls can!

Mmmmm, bacon.

[saratink]

Makes me want a doggy more & more

[kingjamma]

Mmmmm, bacon.

I was thinking more baby back ribs

Makes me want a doggy more & more

By watching videos of pigs, tigers and monkeys?

[saratink]

Yeah! Dogs are very loving creatures !

[lolbeck]

If you think that's the cutest thing ever, I reckon you should watch this. Always brings a massive smile to my face

Baby monkey, baby monkey, backwards on a piiiig, baby monkey

[kingjamma]

Yeah! Dogs are very loving creatures !

They are indeed. Got one at my Nan's and 5 at my parents house.

Baby monkey, baby monkey, backwards on a piiiig, baby monkey

It's like the one of the greatest pick me up videos. Whenever you're feeling down, stick that on and I guarantee it'll bring a smile to your face

And I just found a guitar tab for the song, definitely gunna try that out

[lolbeck]

It's like the one of the greatest pick me up videos. Whenever you're feeling down, stick that on and I guarantee it'll bring a smile to your face

And I just found a guitar tab for the song, definitely gunna try that out

Campfire song at Glasto next year anyone?

[kingjamma]

Campfire song at Glasto next year anyone?

Haha, it probably would be with a couple of my friends singing along.

That's also made me think of being back at my favourite place at Glasto, Strummerville. Can't wait to be sat around the massive campfire again, watching a few bands playing acoustic sets

[gemstarrr]

staff xmas do last night. guy from work who i slept with was being weird with me all night, barely spoke to him. he was making it really awkward.

then he texts me 10 mins after hes left asking me to go back to his. obviously i said no. was not impressed!

he did however apologise to me about it on facebook chat this morning. we've kind of cleared the air a little, but still not talked in person about that night :/ kind of want to speak to him properly about it before xmas so its less awkward at work next year. not sure how to ask him to meet me tho. ask him to go for a drink to talk?

does anyone think this is a good idea? dont want him to think im asking him out on a date or anything, cos from the way hes acting he blatently doesnt want a relationship and i dont want to make things worse :S

[Gre]

ask him to go for a drink to talk?

does anyone think this is a good idea?

I would say a coffee rather than an alcoholic drink - its quite normal for a coffee to be over in 20 minutes, and it sounds like you can say what you want to say in that time.

But yeah, make it obvious that it isn't a date. Explicitly so if needs be.

[feral chile]

staff xmas do last night. guy from work who i slept with was being weird with me all night, barely spoke to him. he was making it really awkward.

then he texts me 10 mins after hes left asking me to go back to his. obviously i said no. was not impressed!

he did however apologise to me about it on facebook chat this morning. we've kind of cleared the air a little, but still not talked in person about that night :/ kind of want to speak to him properly about it before xmas so its less awkward at work next year. not sure how to ask him to meet me tho. ask him to go for a drink to talk?

does anyone think this is a good idea? dont want him to think im asking him out on a date or anything, cos from the way hes acting he blatently doesnt want a relationship and i dont want to make things worse :S

What's to explain? He clearly doesn't want anyone from work to know that he's interested (in whatever it is he's interested in). Since I don't know anything about the work situation, can't comment further.

[markeee]

staff xmas do last night. guy from work who i slept with was being weird with me all night, barely spoke to him. he was making it really awkward.

then he texts me 10 mins after hes left asking me to go back to his. obviously i said no. was not impressed!

he did however apologise to me about it on facebook chat this morning. we've kind of cleared the air a little, but still not talked in person about that night :/ kind of want to speak to him properly about it before xmas so its less awkward at work next year. not sure how to ask him to meet me tho. ask him to go for a drink to talk?

does anyone think this is a good idea? dont want him to think im asking him out on a date or anything, cos from the way hes acting he blatently doesnt want a relationship and i dont want to make things worse :S

I'm not really sure, but by what you' say being weird..sounds like he doesnt want people from work to know ? Maybe I'm reading the situation (from what you say completely wrong)

I don't think it sounds like a good idea really, I mean , if you make it crystal clear it isn't a date he might just say flat out no..he doesn't want to go and that could make things more awkward going forward?

If you say go out for a drink so we can talk..he could think you're being shy but are really into him?

I could of course..be miles wrong on everything I've said!!

[jump]

Might be wrong but sounds to me he's keen on you but he doesn't want people to know you rejected him after last time. Just give him space to clear you out of his head.

Edited December 16, 2010 by jump

[saratink]

Sounds like he wants to 'talk' so you dont go round telling people in work he's a w*nker, so he wants to settle the friction with you to prevent this..

[jump]

I'm sick of my friends complaining that they're single, I was talking to a mate and told him to try talking to the girl he keeps eyeing up and he says no and then starts to bitch about how 'orrible it is to be single.

Edited December 17, 2010 by jump

[gemstarrr]

thanks for the advice. im going to leave it i think. think its too risky he could read it the wrong way if i ask him to meet up with me :/

hoping time will heal the awkwardness over xmas rather than make it worse!

yea i dont think he wants anyone from work to know. but i dont either. we didnt even talk about not telling anyone but i dont think he has and ive only told my 2 closest work friends i know i can trust not to spread it.

I'm sick of my friends complaining that they're single, I was talking to a mate and told him to try talking to the girl he keeps eyeing up and he says no and then starts to bitch about how 'orrible it is to be single.

my housemate is like that it's really annoying.

ive known him for nearly 2 years and in that time he's kissed two girls on nights out and not been or asked anyone out on a date.

ive seen him approach a girl once the whole time ive known him yet he's the person who comments most on whos fit and who he really likes when we're out. never does anything about it! it's not like he's a shy person or anything either! he thinks girls are going to come to him and it's clearly not going to happen!

considering hes on the rugby team aswell and can clearly use that to his advantage going out with the rubgy lads(which he never does) he can't really complain!

[markeee]

thanks for the advice. im going to leave it i think. think its too risky he could read it the wrong way if i ask him to meet up with me :/

hoping time will heal the awkwardness over xmas rather than make it worse!

yea i dont think he wants anyone from work to know. but i dont either. we didnt even talk about not telling anyone but i dont think he has and ive only told my 2 closest work friends i know i can trust not to spread it.

my housemate is like that it's really annoying.

ive known him for nearly 2 years and in that time he's kissed two girls on nights out and not been or asked anyone out on a date.

ive seen him approach a girl once the whole time ive known him yet he's the person who comments most on whos fit and who he really likes when we're out. never does anything about it! it's not like he's a shy person or anything either! he thinks girls are going to come to him and it's clearly not going to happen!

considering hes on the rugby team aswell and can clearly use that to his advantage going out with the rubgy lads(which he never does) he can't really complain!

yea it'll all blow over.probably or hopefully i guess

Edited December 19, 2010 by markeee

[amy246]

I'm rather happy been talking to fit postie lots and texting him too. He seems to rather like the pics of my fancy dress outfits! And now he's finally added me on facebook it looks like he is single and that we more in common too (camping, drama, etc). So what do i do now - wait, make a move, ask him for a drink, turn the texts flirtier? Or do as my workmate suggested and ambush him armed with mistletoe!

[jump]

I'm rather happy been talking to fit postie lots and texting him too. He seems to rather like the pics of my fancy dress outfits! And now he's finally added me on facebook it looks like he is single and that we more in common too (camping, drama, etc). So what do i do now - wait, make a move, ask him for a drink, turn the texts flirtier? Or do as my workmate suggested and ambush him armed with mistletoe!

That one!

Or if you're shy ask him for a drink (on a night out with friends if that makes you more comfortable) or with New Years coming ask him to join you and since you're both single ask him to be your midnight kiss . Just don't wait around, seize the day and whatnot.

Edited December 21, 2010 by jump

[geztival_09]

Trying to figure out what's worse: being dumped, being pissed off at wasting so much time on that person, or the fact that there's nothing you can do to get them back. f**ksake I hate life sometimes

**vodka**