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Well I haven't had a girlfriend for 5 years, it's a lot of effort, I seem to remember. But she is very laid back and undemanding, I think she'd be a good girlfriend.

I might leave it until after Christmas, if possible, as I won't have to spend loads of money on a Christmas present for her if we aren't official. Cool! I'll be in contact about a date for the threesome! :D

If she'll be a good girlfriend, then I suggest it's probably a good idea to officially snatch her up before someone else does.

The present thing makes sense though, good thinking, Batman.

And harhar, yeah, threesome sounds good :lol:

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I might leave it until after Christmas, if possible, as I won't have to spend loads of money on a Christmas present for her if we aren't official.

Seems a long time to wait if you ask me (and a pretty lame excuse to not make it official) I'm certain she'll still expect something nice whether you are officially going out or not - 10 or 11 dates is a lot. Think about it this way, how annoyed would you be if she went off with someone between now and xmas? I'm guessing very.

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I've said I'd take her for a walk on the beach next weekend, so perhaps I'll talk to her then as it'll be pretty romantic. Not that I'm going to propose or anything... but going to the beach together in December is a rather coupley thing to be doing, so might be a good time.

The xmas present comment was slightly tongue-in-cheek, by the way. Although it is pretty logical.

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I've said I'd take her for a walk on the beach next weekend, so perhaps I'll talk to her then as it'll be pretty romantic. Not that I'm going to propose or anything... but going to the beach together in December is a rather coupley thing to be doing, so might be a good time.

The xmas present comment was slightly tongue-in-cheek, by the way. Although it is pretty logical.

I think you're overestimating how romantic a trudge in the biting wind actually is.

Never come out of character! It's brilliant when they think you're deadly serious.

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I think you're overestimating how romantic a trudge in the biting wind actually is.

Never come out of character! It's brilliant when they think you're deadly serious.

Nah it's a really secluded beach, dead romantic, we'll go when it's chilly but not windy and rainy, and we can snuggle up to keep warm and then I'll finger her in a cave.

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Nah it's a really secluded beach, dead romantic, we'll go when it's chilly but not windy and rainy, and we can snuggle up to keep warm and then I'll finger her in a cave.

You are such a wrongun :lol: I just had to read that post out to Frosty

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Soooooo I've talked to frisky housemate's best friend (who also lives with us) about the whole situation. He said that since FH had just gotten out of a relationship when he started getting frisky with me, he didn't really see anything about relationships in a positive light. So his negative feelings about relationships kind of overpowered the feelings he had about me. And apparently, it's only in the past day or so that he's realised that I actually really like him and he honestly hadn't realised before that. Hmm.

FH's BF also added that I'm overthinking everything, which sounds about right.

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Soooooo I've talked to frisky housemate's best friend (who also lives with us) about the whole situation. He said that since FH had just gotten out of a relationship when he started getting frisky with me, he didn't really see anything about relationships in a positive light. So his negative feelings about relationships kind of overpowered the feelings he had about me. And apparently, it's only in the past day or so that he's realised that I actually really like him and he honestly hadn't realised before that. Hmm.

FH's BF also added that I'm overthinking everything, which sounds about right.

jeeso.

anyone with a brain would realise that one bad relationship doesn't mean they will all be bad.

you've been getting frisky with him for ages and he's only just realised you like him? that's a load of shite aswell.

sounds like he wants to have his cake and eat it. but he's only messing you around because you're letting him.

rather than talk to his best pal, maybe talk to FH.. ?

then hopefully it'll get sorted and we don't have to read about every last detail in this ridiculous situation.

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jeeso.

anyone with a brain would realise that one bad relationship doesn't mean they will all be bad.

you've been getting frisky with him for ages and he's only just realised you like him? that's a load of shite aswell.

sounds like he wants to have his cake and eat it. but he's only messing you around because you're letting him.

rather than talk to his best pal, maybe talk to FH.. ?

then hopefully it'll get sorted and we don't have to read about every last detail in this ridiculous situation.

Thats a bit harsh - i don't think anyone should be discouraged for talking about anything to do with relationships in the singles thread. If you want to tell us anything go for it.

Becks i think its a non-starter with this guy too, but i'm not there in the situation and you've got to do what you want to do with it. Just dont get hurt. :)

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Thanks RABun for being a decent person. As you said, it's a singles thread. It's for singles to talk about being single. That's what I'm doing.

Since I appear to have become the new markeeeee for everyone else though, I'll just f**k off.

Wouldn't say your guilty of becoming the new Markeee but you are guilty of letting this drag out too long, hey-ho we all fall for the wrong person at some point.

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jeeso.

anyone with a brain would realise that one bad relationship doesn't mean they will all be bad.

you've been getting frisky with him for ages and he's only just realised you like him? that's a load of shite aswell.

sounds like he wants to have his cake and eat it. but he's only messing you around because you're letting him.

rather than talk to his best pal, maybe talk to FH.. ?

then hopefully it'll get sorted and we don't have to read about every last detail in this ridiculous situation.

You don't 'have' to read anything. I really don't understand why you seem to have taken such an issue with what gemstarrr and lolbeck have been posting in the last couple of weeks.

Jeeso.

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Thanks RABun for being a decent person. As you said, it's a singles thread. It's for singles to talk about being single. That's what I'm doing.

Since I appear to have become the new markeeeee for everyone else though, I'll just f**k off.

you come on here giving regular, detailed updates (although nothing ever seems to change) on your situation with FH. you can't expect all the replies to be postive. if i really thought you were a bad person, i'd be glad for you to get messed around but i actually think you seem really nice and that's why i have replied to your posts offering advice before. my most recent reply to you may have seemed harsh but after years of posting on this site, it does get boring holding back and sometimes you just have to tell it like it is.

and you're not the new markeee, that's gemstar.

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you come on here giving regular, detailed updates (although nothing ever seems to change) on your situation with FH. you can't expect all the replies to be postive. if i really thought you were a bad person, i'd be glad for you to get messed around but i actually think you seem really nice and that's why i have replied to your posts offering advice before. my most recent reply to you may have seemed harsh but after years of posting on this site, it does get boring holding back and sometimes you just have to tell it like it is.

and you're not the new markeee, that's gemstar.

Perhaps tell it like it is in a nice way, rather than being rude about it?

And gemstar didn't do anything markeee-esque, she made a drunken mistake and asked for advice.

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