To address your "the fest no longer wants me to attend".
I attend Way Out West every year and I can say Primavera definitely still caters more to the older/alternative crowd than the Scandinavian fests in August. For example they are also headlined by Charli XcX and Chapell this year and they consistently have smaller lineups and less exciting undercards. They are still good alternatives for anyone living in Scandinavia though.
For major European festivals Primavera for me is still number one. Smaller niche festivals are the real options I think. I could easily prefer Roadburn, Outbreak or Arctangent.
Apollo Ghosts - Amethyst
Dummy - Free Energy
Fontaines DC - Romance
Halo Maud - Celebrate
Jane Weaver - Love In Constant Spectacle
Juniore - Trois, Deux, Un
Kim Deal - Nobody Loves You More
La Luz - News of the Universe
Mary Timony - Untame The Tiger
Ty Segal - Three Bells
Dummy and La Luz being my top two. La Luz were superb live too.