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I know I am uncapable of "no strings" :unsure: Wish I was really, at last then I would be getting more.
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Just my opinion, based on my experience. I know plenty girls who have been hurt by something that started off as a no strings arrangement, or have had to make the decision of wether they want it to be that way and declined. But most of my boy mates are fine about it.

I personally couldn't do it, I know I would end up getting hurt.

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Just my opinion, based on my experience. I know plenty girls who have been hurt by something that started off as a no strings arrangement, or have had to make the decision of wether they want it to be that way and declined. But most of my boy mates are fine about it.
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I have had the no strings thing...well kind of. It started off as some sex after a night out with a girl in my circle of friends. Then again after another night out. She then asked me out to which I said no as I realised I really didn't like her in that way. Or not quite enough for a proper relationship.

At least then she knew where I stood but it kept on happening. I think we were both happy in the fact that we were getting some but we weren't quite on the same wavelength otherwise. It only stopped when she started seeing someone. Now we are both in relationships and, although not proper mates (we kind of never were though), we are still friends as if nothing ever happened...I think.

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That's what I don't like. I don't want to get "sucked in" to a relationship, with someone I don't particularly like, simply because we see each other to have sex. On the other hand, I don't want to hurt her if she's expecting it to go somewhere.
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I know exactly what I am like and I can't do no strings, and I don't even wish I could. I have had a couple of one night stands, and to be frank I didn't enjoy it that much. The sex was great but there was something missing.

I used to think that sex and companionship were the driving forces for me, but I have realised that they don't really play a part. But I have been put in the position of a no strings relationship recently and it is just a can of worms that I am not going near.

Last year at a few of the festivals I worked with a lovely girl, and I had a real crush on her. She came over to Manchester etc and we got on. Then we went to our last festival and really hit it off, but therewas something that I couldn't put my finger on. Also I wanted to keep things relaxed and I was having a laugh, but something was bugging me. Then it was one night we were all sat around a fire, and it hit me. She was a nasty cow when she was pissed, but more than that. She was getting pissed and drugged so she could be nasty, and then using it as an excuse.

I didn't know what to do, as I know for a fact I would be unable to cope with it further down the line. But she then locked a friend in her car knowing that the lass was claustrophobic. I used to be a mean drunk, but now I am soft as shit and I didn't say anything that night. I waited until the next afternoon when she was sober, and bluntly told her what a f**king nasty bitch she was. I then told her to delete my phone numbers off her phone, and I have never met such a "vitriolic, nasty piece of work" as her.

Anywhoooo.

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I have to admit that made me snigger.... not in a nasty way, in the way that you dealt with it in the best possible way anybody could, she got what was coming to her without you lowering yourself to her level. People who turn nasty when they drink and know about it should stter clear. Telling her whilst sober was exactly the right thing to do!
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I was going to just ignore her, but then I knew that I would end up with text messages all the time. It didn't feel nice watching her to make sure she deleted my numbers, but I felt that was the best thing to do.

Luckily my friends know not to pass on my number. I only ever give it to folk that I want to have it.

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I was amazed how quickly I just thought to myself "No way". I was a little dissappointed in myself, as she had some clear issues that over time I could have helped with. However so have I, and I am not in a position to rescue anyone (although other people tell me otherwise).

But it's all a learning curve for me at the moment.

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