Glitter+Vodka Posted November 10, 2009 Report Share Posted November 10, 2009 you's are a bunch of arseholes too, mind! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katster Posted November 11, 2009 Report Share Posted November 11, 2009 Can't you guarantee that though? (Won't judge you if you say you can't...) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katster Posted November 11, 2009 Report Share Posted November 11, 2009 My baby don't mess around Because she loves me so And this I know for shooo (sure).. Uh, But does she really wanna But can't stand to see me Walk out the dooor.. Don't try to fight the feelin' Because the thought alone is killing me right nooww.. Uh, thank god for mom and dad For sticking two together 'Cause we don't know hooowww... UH! Heeeyyy... Yaaaaaaa.. Heeyy Yaaaaaaaa.. Heeeyyy... Yaaaaaaa.. Heeyy Yaaaaaaaa.. Heeeyyy... Yaaaaaaa.. Heeyy Yaaaaaaaa.. Heeeyyy... Yaaaaaaa.. Heeyy Yaaaaaaaa.. You think you've got it Ohh, you think you've got it But got it just don't get it Till' there's nothing at AaaaaaaaAAAAAAAaaaaaaAAAAAAaaaaaallllll.. We get together Ohh, we get together But seperate's always better when there's feelings InvooooooOOOOOOOoooooooOOOOOOooooooOOOOOlved If what they say is "Nothing is forever" Then what makes, Then what makes, Then what makes Then what makes, Then what makes LOOVVEEE? (Love exception) So why you, why you Why you, why you, why you are we so in denial When we know we're not happy heeeerrreeee... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ampersand Posted November 11, 2009 Report Share Posted November 11, 2009 Exactly. And if you really listen to the lyrics in that song, it's actually quite profound. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katster Posted November 11, 2009 Report Share Posted November 11, 2009 i never fully understood the song til pogo posted that and i checked out the lyrics Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ampersand Posted November 11, 2009 Report Share Posted November 11, 2009 I figured it out when Will Young did a slowed down version of it in the live lounge. It made me cry! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Radar Posted November 11, 2009 Report Share Posted November 11, 2009 yeah i'm torn between what to do...wouldn't mind abit of fun with him but at the same time don't wanna be used! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ampersand Posted November 11, 2009 Report Share Posted November 11, 2009 2) The grass isn't always greener on the other side Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katster Posted November 11, 2009 Report Share Posted November 11, 2009 Taking those points in order 1) Why are people never satisfied? Genuine question 2) The grass isn't always greener on the other side, someday you have to make your mind up 3) If you're talking chronic illness, only an arsehole would walk away from you in that circumstance 4) Cheating and revenge are a vicious and pointless circle. Better just to split in that case, isn't it? 5) As soon as he can't satisfy you, you're gone, is that what you're saying? You won't always be young...! 6) Moment of passion - so are you saying you can't resist temptation? 7) You're both responsible for avoiding boredom, aren't you? You needn't go on, but modern definitions of love are remarkably fickle, and I'm not having a go at you there, it just concerns me in general (and we all basically have the same worries...) Aye fair play to you Kat. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Radar Posted November 11, 2009 Report Share Posted November 11, 2009 I agree, and in general it's always been me looking at other people in other relationships wondering how they can claim to love someone when I know full well they've been in bed with someone else the night before. I allowed someone to kiss me at Christmas on a works do once, it wasn't anything major, but I did it, and in the taxi home I was devastated and saying it was the end of my relationship and blah blah blah.....a woman I work with said it was fine, she snogged people all the time but her and her husband are very happy together my relationship DID end, it obviously wasn't just to do with that kiss but the fact I'd done it did make me realise I was unhappy and I didn't stay with him to find myself doing more and more things behind his back. Other people obviously don't think like me. Did I say that if he couldn't satisfy me that would be it, I'd be gone? No. But it could be a factor...I DON'T KNOW, I can't predict the future. Neither did I say I couldn't resist temptation.....but I don't know that I ALWAYS can. Of course we're both repsonsible for avoiding boredom, but that's what I'm saying...I can only be responsible for myself, I can't guarantee he'll always keep trying, I can't guarantee this relationship means as much to him as it does to me. I don't know why people are never satisfied. I am very satisified right now, but I've also been inclined to change my mind in the past. I have no idea why. My mind is made up, right now, I only have eyes for him. I can't guarantee that will always be the case, how can I? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katster Posted November 11, 2009 Report Share Posted November 11, 2009 Yes okay you can't guarantee anything about another person but you should know them pretty well before you find yourself hitched/settled with them! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ampersand Posted November 11, 2009 Report Share Posted November 11, 2009 Michael Barrymore was married with kids then came out as being gay 20 years later. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Radar Posted November 11, 2009 Report Share Posted November 11, 2009 Michael Barrymore was married with kids then came out as being gay 20 years later. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katster Posted November 11, 2009 Report Share Posted November 11, 2009 (edited) Do you think his wife never knew? Edited November 11, 2009 by Katster Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Radar Posted November 11, 2009 Report Share Posted November 11, 2009 Errrr, yeah, I do. If she knew why would she then divorce him? Doesn't sound like she knew? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katster Posted November 11, 2009 Report Share Posted November 11, 2009 hardly a model of the ideal relationship was it?! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Peevis Posted November 11, 2009 Report Share Posted November 11, 2009 (edited) No, I guess not. But you know what I mean....how do you really really ever know a person? I don't even really really know myself, I don't know what I'm capable of if driven to it? I would never for one moment have thought I'd be one of those women who stayed in an abusive relationship, yet I did, for a whole year. People are married to people for years and those people live secret lives....or have I been watching too many movies? Edited November 11, 2009 by Peevis Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Radar Posted November 11, 2009 Report Share Posted November 11, 2009 No, I guess not. But you know what I mean....how do you really really ever know a person? I don't even really really know myself, I don't know what I'm capable of if driven to it? I would never for one moment have thought I'd be one of those women who stayed in an abusive relationship, yet I did, for a whole year. People are married to people for years and those people live secret lives....or have I been watching too many movies? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katster Posted November 11, 2009 Report Share Posted November 11, 2009 You know. You really do provided you truly are honest with yourself. Thing about love, in the context of the above is, if you love someone they could say their knob was nine foot long with a posh shoe shop at the end of it to impress you, and if you love him, you;d be inclined to believe it. OK the above maybe possibly a little over the top. However, you always believe what you wanna. Amazing the human ability to fool yourself. but deep down, I think you know. Denial is powerful, but only the mentals cannot trully tell. The rest of us, at times, simply don't wanna. There is a difference. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Langdale Wolf Posted November 11, 2009 Report Share Posted November 11, 2009 From a personal point of view, I know I will never: Wear a West Brom shirt (willingly) Shoot myself in my groin Enjoy X-Factor Be pleased to see Jonathan Ross's detestable face Be tempted to cheat on my wife. People have used the excuse that they've been drunk. Yes, but when drunk, I have never plunged a kitchen knife into my chest, jumped off a tall building or ordered a Kaiser Chiefs album online. All would be as stupid and completely inexcusable as snogging/shagging some random woman. I simply don't understand people who are unfaithful, or what goes through their minds. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Radar Posted November 11, 2009 Report Share Posted November 11, 2009 You've obviously never been badly burnt, though I don't assume it really....it's just always in the back of my mind. It's probably my sub-conscience trying to protect me, or something. I do believe that he loves me, and I don't think he'd intentionally do anything to hurt me. Hope not anyway, that would be shit! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katster Posted November 11, 2009 Report Share Posted November 11, 2009 However if you want to love and be loved, then sooner or later you will take that risk again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katster Posted November 11, 2009 Report Share Posted November 11, 2009 From a personal point of view, I know I will never: Wear a West Brom shirt (willingly) Shoot myself in my groin Enjoy X-Factor Be pleased to see Jonathan Ross's detestable face Be tempted to cheat on my wife. People have used the excuse that they've been drunk. Yes, but when drunk, I have never plunged a kitchen knife into my chest, jumped off a tall building or ordered a Kaiser Chiefs album online. All would be as stupid and completely inexcusable as snogging/shagging some random woman. I simply don't understand people who are unfaithful, or what goes through their minds. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Langdale Wolf Posted November 11, 2009 Report Share Posted November 11, 2009 Would you forgive your wife if she admitted to cheating on you? Personal I know, don't answer if you don't want. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Radar Posted November 11, 2009 Report Share Posted November 11, 2009 Ummm, I have. And so far all is dandy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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