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My baby don't mess around

Because she loves me so

And this I know for shooo (sure)..

Uh, But does she really wanna

But can't stand to see me

Walk out the dooor..

Don't try to fight the feelin'

Because the thought alone is killing me right nooww..

Uh, thank god for mom and dad

For sticking two together

'Cause we don't know hooowww...

UH!

Heeeyyy... Yaaaaaaa..

Heeyy Yaaaaaaaa..

Heeeyyy... Yaaaaaaa..

Heeyy Yaaaaaaaa..

Heeeyyy... Yaaaaaaa..

Heeyy Yaaaaaaaa..

Heeeyyy... Yaaaaaaa..

Heeyy Yaaaaaaaa..

You think you've got it

Ohh, you think you've got it

But got it just don't get it

Till' there's nothing at

AaaaaaaaAAAAAAAaaaaaaAAAAAAaaaaaallllll..

We get together

Ohh, we get together

But seperate's always better when there's feelings

InvooooooOOOOOOOoooooooOOOOOOooooooOOOOOlved

If what they say is "Nothing is forever"

Then what makes, Then what makes, Then what makes

Then what makes, Then what makes LOOVVEEE?

(Love exception) So why you, why you

Why you, why you, why you are we so in denial

When we know we're not happy heeeerrreeee...

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Taking those points in order

1) Why are people never satisfied? Genuine question

2) The grass isn't always greener on the other side, someday you have to make your mind up

3) If you're talking chronic illness, only an arsehole would walk away from you in that circumstance

4) Cheating and revenge are a vicious and pointless circle. Better just to split in that case, isn't it?

5) As soon as he can't satisfy you, you're gone, is that what you're saying? You won't always be young...!

6) Moment of passion - so are you saying you can't resist temptation?

7) You're both responsible for avoiding boredom, aren't you?

You needn't go on, but modern definitions of love are remarkably fickle, and I'm not having a go at you there, it just concerns me in general (and we all basically have the same worries...)

Aye fair play to you Kat.

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I agree, and in general it's always been me looking at other people in other relationships wondering how they can claim to love someone when I know full well they've been in bed with someone else the night before. I allowed someone to kiss me at Christmas on a works do once, it wasn't anything major, but I did it, and in the taxi home I was devastated and saying it was the end of my relationship and blah blah blah.....a woman I work with said it was fine, she snogged people all the time but her and her husband are very happy together :P my relationship DID end, it obviously wasn't just to do with that kiss but the fact I'd done it did make me realise I was unhappy and I didn't stay with him to find myself doing more and more things behind his back. Other people obviously don't think like me.

Did I say that if he couldn't satisfy me that would be it, I'd be gone? No. But it could be a factor...I DON'T KNOW, I can't predict the future. Neither did I say I couldn't resist temptation.....but I don't know that I ALWAYS can. Of course we're both repsonsible for avoiding boredom, but that's what I'm saying...I can only be responsible for myself, I can't guarantee he'll always keep trying, I can't guarantee this relationship means as much to him as it does to me.

I don't know why people are never satisfied. I am very satisified right now, but I've also been inclined to change my mind in the past. I have no idea why. My mind is made up, right now, I only have eyes for him. I can't guarantee that will always be the case, how can I?

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No, I guess not. But you know what I mean....how do you really really ever know a person? I don't even really really know myself, I don't know what I'm capable of if driven to it? I would never for one moment have thought I'd be one of those women who stayed in an abusive relationship, yet I did, for a whole year. People are married to people for years and those people live secret lives....or have I been watching too many movies?

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No, I guess not. But you know what I mean....how do you really really ever know a person? I don't even really really know myself, I don't know what I'm capable of if driven to it? I would never for one moment have thought I'd be one of those women who stayed in an abusive relationship, yet I did, for a whole year. People are married to people for years and those people live secret lives....or have I been watching too many movies?

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You know. You really do provided you truly are honest with yourself.

Thing about love, in the context of the above is, if you love someone they could say their knob was nine foot long with a posh shoe shop at the end of it to impress you, and if you love him, you;d be inclined to believe it.

OK the above maybe possibly a little over the top. However, you always believe what you wanna. :P Amazing the human ability to fool yourself. but deep down, I think you know. Denial is powerful, but only the mentals cannot trully tell. The rest of us, at times, simply don't wanna. There is a difference.

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From a personal point of view, I know I will never:

Wear a West Brom shirt (willingly)

Shoot myself in my groin

Enjoy X-Factor

Be pleased to see Jonathan Ross's detestable face

Be tempted to cheat on my wife.

People have used the excuse that they've been drunk. Yes, but when drunk, I have never plunged a kitchen knife into my chest, jumped off a tall building or ordered a Kaiser Chiefs album online. All would be as stupid and completely inexcusable as snogging/shagging some random woman.

I simply don't understand people who are unfaithful, or what goes through their minds.

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You've obviously never been badly burnt, though I don't assume it really....it's just always in the back of my mind. It's probably my sub-conscience trying to protect me, or something. I do believe that he loves me, and I don't think he'd intentionally do anything to hurt me. Hope not anyway, that would be shit!
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From a personal point of view, I know I will never:

Wear a West Brom shirt (willingly)

Shoot myself in my groin

Enjoy X-Factor

Be pleased to see Jonathan Ross's detestable face

Be tempted to cheat on my wife.

People have used the excuse that they've been drunk. Yes, but when drunk, I have never plunged a kitchen knife into my chest, jumped off a tall building or ordered a Kaiser Chiefs album online. All would be as stupid and completely inexcusable as snogging/shagging some random woman.

I simply don't understand people who are unfaithful, or what goes through their minds.

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Would you forgive your wife if she admitted to cheating on you?

Personal I know, don't answer if you don't want.

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