singles thread

[Glitter+Vodka]

Firstly, awwww congratulations Wolfie

Secondly, Jay, go for it. Charm away

Thirdly, I'm feeling total personal attack going on here. Yes, he's a prick. Yes, I was gullible. He's a nice guy in non-relationship terms. But seriously guys, chill it, please.

[lolbeck]

Dont worry, folk have been fooled worse than you. One of my mates who i work with, has been going out with a guy for almost 2 years now. he's always had a bit of a problem staying faithful, and she knew he had cheated on the girl he was engaged to when they first met (though not with her). He left the fiance, and started going out with my mate. Then after about a year, it came out that the ex was pregnant with his child. The ex sent a text message to what she thought was my friends work phone, but it was mine and so I had to break the news to her. She was pretty devastated, however, foolishly she decided to stay with him, coz it was coming up to christmas and she didnt want to be alone etc etc. She said she was leaving after christmas, but it seemed that by January all was forgotten.

Then a few days ago, one of his friends, who he has also betrayed in some way, came to me and told me about everything hes been doing behind her back... apparently sleeping with about 4 other girls (one of which is a volunteer at the service we work at!!!) on numerous occasions, as well as about 15 other one night stands, exchanging of dirty fotos etc etc. So yet again, I have to sit her down and tell her this. I actually was a shaking wreck telling her, as I thought she would be gutted, however when i told her the news she was just like oh, to be honest I thought there were other girls, but I dont think theres been any since he got busted the last time. She said she wud ask him, and when I text her later on she said he just denied it. OF course he f**king denied it!!!

Not really sure why I decided to share all of this, but i just really really dont understand it. WHY would u stay with someone who was making a complete fool of u like that?! When he got busted before he wasnt even sorry, he told her to stop crying about it as he was sick of arguing. I cant believe I was so upset and feeling sick about telling her all of this when she appears to not give a shit anyway, she seems quite happy to let him walk all over her.

[Rufus Gwertigan]

Now that's just plain silly. He's totally taking advantage of her! Ergh. There are some men in the world who deserve no love at all

[lolbeck]

oo oo oo. I think you may be wrong.

[Rufus Gwertigan]

No, some men deserve no romantic love. Love from their mothers and friends, yes. But...not otherwise.

[lolbeck]

Thats me f**ked then. I didn't even have love from my mum or my ex.

Balls

[brighteyes]

Tonight I went to a club on a school night, for the first time in about 3 years. Still didn't get no clunge. 'lolbeck': wanna listen to Mew, eat some chicken & make out with me?

We'll talk more when you inevitably change your mind x

[Snufflebutt]

Has there ever been a Singles thread meet? I think it would be a laugh - and putting loads of singles in the 1 room increases the chances of us getting laid/ entering into a beautiful long lasting relationship? Singles thread is invariably the best chat anyway.

[ampersand]

Thirdly, I'm feeling total personal attack going on here. Yes, he's a prick. Yes, I was gullible. He's a nice guy in non-relationship terms. But seriously guys, chill it, please.

[rabid]

Has there ever been a Singles thread meet? I think it would be a laugh - and putting loads of singles in the 1 room increases the chances of us getting laid/ entering into a beautiful long lasting relationship? Singles thread is invariably the best chat anyway.

[greenfairy43]

Has there ever been a Singles thread meet? I think it would be a laugh - and putting loads of singles in the 1 room FIELD increases the chances of us getting laid/ entering into a beautiful long lasting relationship? Singles thread is invariably the best chat anyway.

[Katster]

To be fair to him, he might just be freaking out n shit. Nobody on here I don't think has had that kind of responsibility just appear on them. I think I'd proper shit it too if it happened to me.

[Goblinz]

And yet you're going to the Brothers bar?

[Lithium05]

Still here. Still single. Little to report.

I could go for the usual whinges about friends etc. But to be honest I'd just be repeating the same old thing.

I will say one thing though, my old mates have become ridiculously reclusive - won't go out to the pub (unless their gfs want to), will only socialise on their own round peoples houses. It's become such a re-occuring thing I'm actually getting bored of FIFA

Edited April 1, 2010 by Lithium05

[rabid]

7) All of the above.

[Katster]

Why 'vile' ?

[rabid]

Not being responsible for a child you have brought into this world isn't vile?

[Bezdad]

Not being responsible for a child you have brought into this world isn't vile?

[Bezdad]

I take it you're anti-abortion then.

[Katster]

I take it you're anti-abortion then.

[Snufflebutt]

Has anyone tried speed dating?

[rabid]

Or rather, deliberately and cynically trying to avoid your responsibilities as a parent (and not just the financial ones either) by going straight to lawyers. Sounds pretty vile to me.

[Langdale Wolf]

I'm not sure.

We're talking from a man's perspective here, as in how he'd deal with the child once it was born.

[Katster]

But he didn't have any choice in the matter. He didn't want to be a father and said so, she decided that he was going to be.

[Katster]

Has anyone tried speed dating?