singles thread

[rabid]

Appreciated, as I say though getting places is a problem at the mo. I'll start leaving the flat on a weekend eventually... it's just too easy not to at the moment I have a comfy sofa, internet and a chinese downstairs, who will deliver! What else does a man need!

[rachbon]

cuddles are good! i miss them

[ampersand]

i don't think people realise how important cuddles are! that's one of the things i'd miss the most if i was single.

[Rufus Gwertigan]

i know. could really really do with one right now

[spg]

i know. could really really do with one right now

[gemstarrr]

ah gemstar i do remember those feelings from many years ago.

Also thought i would put up my singleness after a long termer, had a year of not bothering but now have that real need to have cuddles again

[Glitter+Vodka]

what did you do? haha

yea cuddles are what i need. its so nice to just have someone to fall asleep with. *sigh*

but yes he's not texted me since last friday now, when we said we'd go out this weekend. and i met him on the friday night the week before that. he said he'd let me know because he's been in london alot for work. but i don't want to keep my saturday night and sunday free for then nothing to happen!

he texted me first the first time we started a text convo but i texted him first the second and cos he said he'd let me know about the weekend i feel i should wait. i don't want to appear too forward. but then i dont want him to know i've kept my whole weekend open for him!

to wait or not to wait?

Edited May 6, 2010 by Glitter+Vodka

[markeee]

what did you do? haha

yea cuddles are what i need. its so nice to just have someone to fall asleep with. *sigh*

but yes he's not texted me since last friday now, when we said we'd go out this weekend. and i met him on the friday night the week before that. he said he'd let me know because he's been in london alot for work. but i don't want to keep my saturday night and sunday free for then nothing to happen!

he texted me first the first time we started a text convo but i texted him first the second and cos he said he'd let me know about the weekend i feel i should wait. i don't want to appear too forward. but then i dont want him to know i've kept my whole weekend open for him!

to wait or not to wait?

Edited May 6, 2010 by markeee

[lolbeck]

markeeeeeee, stop worrying!

Also, I am officially asexual. I think it's better that way. For me and everyone else.

[gemstarrr]

god i bloody HATE all the, is it ok to text again, if i text again will he think im too keen, and he text me first so its ok for me to text first this time nonsense! all this is what makes new relationships stressful when its not supposed to be!

ETA - i dont envy u...coz being in the middle of text games is crap, but my advice is just to text him, if hes keen he will be pleased to hear from u, he may have just been busy or whatever.

[spg]

what did you do? haha

yea cuddles are what i need. its so nice to just have someone to fall asleep with. *sigh*

[bunique]

Sorry to hear that Si

[brighteyes]

Right I think I'm getting a bit desperate now because earlier on I tried to rationalise being a rapist. When's the next efests meet, by the way?

Also my ex cheated on her current boyfriend and it made me angry.

[markeee]

Right I think I'm getting a bit desperate now because earlier on I tried to rationalise being a rapist. When's the next efests meet, by the way?

Also my ex cheated on her current boyfriend and it made me angry.

[ampersand]

yea cheating isn't ok, if you cheat you obviously don't care about the person you're with..so why be with them

Edited May 9, 2010 by ampersand

[Straight_Outta_Trumpton]

i think you may have misunderstood his point!

*edit* unless i have. knowing brighteyes, i don't think i have

[ampersand]

are you implying that he is miffed that his ex is cheating... with someone other than him?

[brighteyes]

Dunno really, think I just meant that this is the third boyfriend she has cheated on (just a kiss), and she should have grown out of it by now!

[Glitter+Vodka]

I wudnt like to think that an was cheating on his new gf coz it wud make me wonder what he had been up to when he and i were together! N thats what I assumed Brighteyes meant too.

[brighteyes]

I wudnt like to think that an was cheating on his new gf coz it wud make me wonder what he had been up to when he and i were together! N thats what I assumed Brighteyes meant too.

[Goblinz]

Basket on a rope out of the window?

[brighteyes]

Not quite sure how I'm not doinking right now. For a few glorious minutes, I thought I might be in for a threesome (the good kind), but it wasn't to be. Couldn't lure her in to my masturbation den. Probably shouldn't have called it that in front of her. Nice perky boobs, tight stomach, pretty face, good kisser... I've got it all. SEX FAIL

[brighteyes]

Ok here's a good one for you...

On Saturday night I was out with a couple of mates, one of them was a girl who I'm fairly good friends with (and also we doinked a couple of times a few years ago). It ended up just me and her in the club as my other friend ran off drunk somewhere. Some guys were annoying us on the dancefloor so I moved us away from them in to a corner. Out of nowhere she said to me "Don't do it unless you love me", presumably thinking I was about to pull her. She ran off after a few seconds of watching the very bemused look on my face...

This girl is going out with one of my very best friends, and has been for almost two years. I found her in the club and she basically said that she wasn't sure about her current relationship and that she has feelings for me, and she thought I might have feelings for her. I said that I did like her a lot but I don't want to go out with her - I don't want to go out with anyone. I think I did a pretty good job of making it clear that nothing would ever happen between us, without making her feel too inadequate. I told her that no girl could ever hope to fully tame the p-cock, obv. Then she cried on my shoulder for 10 minutes and I walked her home.

She texted me yesterday apologising for putting me in that situation and said she was very drunk, but I feel pretty guilty as I know her boyfriend is absolutely besotted with her, and I feel like it's not going to last. The awkwardness next time I'm with them both is going to be horrible, too. Hopefully she will decide she is happy with my mate but I never think relationships last when you find yourself thinking like she is, and she blatantly would have cheated on him on Saturday if I was still the selfish w*nker that I used to be.

God I'm a stud though, eh?

[Sparticus]

This girl^ has just asked to live with me and another friend starting from the beginning of July, and I'm not sure I can get out of doing so. She's still going out with the same guy, one of my best friends. Is this a terrible idea or what?!

I'm a bit scared. Not saying she is moving in with me to get close to me [though she probably is], but this just seems like an accident waiting to happen.

[Snufflebutt]

This girl^ has just asked to live with me and another friend starting from the beginning of July, and I'm not sure I can get out of doing so. She's still going out with the same guy, one of my best friends. Is this a terrible idea or what?!

I'm a bit scared. Not saying she is moving in with me to get close to me [though she probably is], but this just seems like an accident waiting to happen.