singles thread

[greenfairy43]

Maybe I've convinced myself she's nice..I don't know really

it's kinda like I have to watch what I say else she gets moody over almost nothing, Emily texts me saying 'Ring me x' that makes her angry and annoyed and it's simply her wondering if Im coming out..nothing more

'If girls talked to you I'd just get pissed off' were her words, so I can't speak to girls im friends with?

everytime I try and talk about it, she just wont lol

[philipsteak]

markee, does it ever bother you that your life reads like a particularly poor episode of Holyoaks. (is that still going? my references for shit teen programs are a few years out of date)

[jump]

Aside from all your sauce discussing...

I'd like to know why boys with girlfriends tell girls at clubs that they don't have girlfriends, get kisses and whatnot, add the club girls on facebook, only to reveal that they actually do have a girlfriend, and a 7 month old child.

Also, I'm a twat. That is all.

Edited September 8, 2010 by jump

[ampersand]

Because they can, besides I think clubs are only suitable for meeting someone for a bit of fun. As long a you don't go in there expecting to meet the perfect man you'll have a laugh and if you do meet a decent fella it's all good then.

[jump]

markee, does it ever bother you that your life reads like a particularly poor episode of Holyoaks. (is that still going? my references for shit teen programs are a few years out of date)

[jump]

i don't really like clubs anyway, but i'm not going to go to one looking for a long term girlfriend. i seem to only pull at festivals. which means i've got a lonley few months coming up

Edited September 8, 2010 by jump

[ampersand]

God, f**k that. I start going crazy if I've not had xxx in less than 2 weeks.

Festival are a decent place to meet girls though, I met 2 of my most sane/normal ex's at festivals.

[Snufflebutt]

it's more the shit that i miss...

[jump]

it's not the xxx that's the problem. you can deal with that in other ways

it's more the companionship and shit that i miss...

[Pogues Mcgogues]

What have I done now!!, but yea how is my attitude shit?!

[ampersand]

Get a dog

[Pogues Mcgogues]

thanks jeremy!

[jump]

You have pre-conceptions of 'types' of women. It's as if you don't see them as individuals but as categories.

If every woman you've met is 'weird' etc etc, then perhaps you should sit down and think. Are there parts of your personality that make the people you meet act this way (and this is boys and girls whom you don't date either)

You see a woman as something to be obtained. They're not. Instead you should be open minded and chat to girls get to see them on the same level you'd chat to anyone else close to you. You'll then realise what parts of your personality click. If you can chat to her for ages then you click and that's great, but it still may only be seen as friendship on her part. Once you know the person better, then start to ask her out on dates and what not. It will mean you don't have any surprises, or less of them, that the girl isn't perhaps right for you when you go out, because you'll have gotten to know them at a far better level than pulling them on a dance floor and sharing a fag in the smokers area. You see what I'm getting at? Women are individuals.

Obviously this is just my opinion, and should be treated as such, but if you look down on people just because they are women and you see them as a potential f**k, then you'll always end up screwing with them and then yourself.

I had a mate that, from what I read on here, seemed to be like you. What sorted him out was finding someone who put him under the thumb.

[Cardboard Box City]

How about I get you tickets for West 'am? Eh? You like that? West-am?

[Pogues Mcgogues]

Not sure who's advice is worse, Markeee's of "go creep after women" or Pogo's "I don't have a girlfriend but my mate is under the thumb so be like him"?

Edited September 8, 2010 by TheJobbyJabber

[RABun]

i want a pug

[jump]

The last bit was tongue in cheek which equates to the ' ' being used.

So you think you shouldn't get to know people (which is markeeeeeeee's problem) before seeing them?

[ampersand]

Me too, soo cute! might even be nicer than my boyfriend... i say might, buts its actually a foregone conclusion.

[ampersand]

Eh?, dating is getting to know people.

I offered my advice on the other page, go to a shit club meet shit people, go to a classy club meet classy people.

[Pogues Mcgogues]

Eh?, dating is getting to know people.

I offered my advice on the other page, go to a shit club meet shit people, go to a classy club meet classy people.

[Cardboard Box City]

I find you meet the same shit people just of different social class. I always feel a bit uncomfortable in 'classy' places.

[spwan-of-the-devil]

Yeah, but he talks about seeing someone. I would think he meant proper seeing someone. Anyway, it was my response to Markeee, there must be better chat than talking about markeee's relationships.

I find you meet the same shit people just of different social class. I always feel a bit uncomfortable in 'classy' places.

[Pogues Mcgogues]

[jump]

None of them want to take about Trade Unionism with me. I find 'classy' places lack a common sense of solidarity, comrade!

Edited September 8, 2010 by jump

[Cardboard Box City]

I find 'classy' places lack a common sense of solidarity, comrade!