singles thread

[markeee]

do men like it if women approach them first?

or does it make them look desperate?

just curious, kinda regret not going up to a really fit australian in the park the other day. (i really have a thing about their accents! haha) thought he would come over cos he kept looking at me but then he left. haha gutted for me!

also on the offchance anyone knows someone called callum 22ish who went to leeds this year camped in red let me know! he was a drummer, graduated hull uni, was there with his band and had light longish hear in dreads. regret not asking him out too! but i was on duty at the time and didnt fancy risking getting turned down infront of his mates and my CAT partner haha. tried to find his camp the next day but couldn't find it

[Pogues Mcgogues]

Yeah ofcourse they do!

Lol, men are just as shy as women when it comes to they kind of things a lot of the time.

[saratink]

I still wish men would make the first move more often ! I don't like making the first move and i rekon most women are the same lol.

Edited September 8, 2010 by south wales sara !

[markeee]

I still wish men would make the first move more often ! I don't like making the first move and i rekon most women are the same lol.

[markeee]

I work on the basis of if I go up to a girl and speak to her and she's rude..oh well, i probably didn't want to know her anyway! same applies if a girl goes to a guy and he's rude

[Snufflebutt]

I'm not sure I really like girls making the first move tbh. Its not a case of me thinking they are desperate I think. Maybe I'm a traditionalist. Although I suppose if I ended up liking her then it would matter.

[saratink]

that must be why i'm so bad at pulling..i hardly ever make the first move unless i'm drunk

[jump]

do men like it if women approach them first?

or does it make them look desperate?

just curious, kinda regret not going up to a really fit australian in the park the other day. (i really have a thing about their accents! haha) thought he would come over cos he kept looking at me but then he left. haha gutted for me!

Edited September 9, 2010 by jump

[RABun]

It depends how long you've been seeing her?

If its a couple of dates then an email will be fine. lol

If its been a couple of months, then a phone call will do, no-one wants to go through the embarassment of having to sit there making conversation after being dumped while you finish your drinks. then you have the 'to kiss or not to kiss, shake hands?' problem.

[ampersand]

If its been a couple of months, then a phone call will do, no-one wants to go through the embarassment of having to sit there making conversation after being dumped while you finish your drinks. then you have the 'to kiss or not to kiss, shake hands?' problem.

[spwan-of-the-devil]

Normally if I do make a move first I make an arse of meself Then the sympthy vote works

Also its cool I think when someone asks you out, Cause even if its someone you dont like still gives ya the vote of confidence for the rest of the day

But yes prefer it when someone comes up to you first

[jump]

It depends how long you've been seeing her?

If its a couple of dates then an email will be fine. lol

If its been a couple of months, then a phone call will do, no-one wants to go through the embarassment of having to sit there making conversation after being dumped while you finish your drinks. then you have the 'to kiss or not to kiss, shake hands?' problem.

[rachbon]

At the girls, in an early stage relationship how would you like to be dumped? Do you need to meet up with them have a drink and talk why it didn't work or would you rather do it over the phone so it's quick and painless?

[jump]

yeah i had that at the weekend. just walked away without a bye

[Gre]

ive chosen to move to preston to get away from men

[saratink]

Thanks

Couple of weeks, but I never do things by email/text so I can't be accused of being a jerk.

Edited September 9, 2010 by south wales sara !

[jump]

Well the deed is done, she sounded fine with it but very mopey with means I feel guilty. Would of prefered it she was angry about.

So a review, she was sexy as hell, fun, an animal on night outs but she didn't have that many UK friends which means clingy in the long run, other major problems being our senses of humour, she didn't get mine and hers was pulling chairs away from me when I'm trying to sit down but I was more worried about her telling me off for talking to guy I didn't know in the street as he was a "coloured" . All in all glad I met, great fun but nothing there in the long term, she would make a great drinking partner in the future though.

[Smally]

I dumped my ex by text at around 5:30AM, whilst I was boarding the eurostar to Groezrock, then had no signal for 3 days. Oops.

[spwan-of-the-devil]

I dumped my ex by text at around 5:30AM, whilst I was boarding the eurostar to Groezrock, then had no signal for 3 days. Oops.

[rachbon]

Well the deed is done, she sounded fine with it but very mopey with means I feel guilty. Would of prefered it she was angry about.

So a review, she was sexy as hell, fun, an animal on night outs but she didn't have that many UK friends which means clingy in the long run, other major problems being our senses of humour, she didn't get mine and hers was pulling chairs away from me when I'm trying to sit down but I was more worried about her telling me off for talking to guy I didn't know in the street as he was a "coloured" . All in all glad I met, great fun but nothing there in the long term, she would make a great drinking partner in the future though.

[jump]

i couldn't go out with someone who didn't get my sense of humour.

and the "coloured" thing.. f**k that. she sounds a bit racist.

[Pogues Mcgogues]

I wouldn't say she was racist more ignorant than hatefull like asking a Korean person if they eat dogs but then again she was Spanish so probably not.

[jump]

lol, was that meant to be a joke?

[Pogues Mcgogues]

The only joke here is your love life.

[jump]

Criticising her for stereotyping Korean about eating dog when you stereotyped her as racist for being Spanish.

And what do you know of me kind sir?