singles thread

[gemstarrr]

saw someone i was practically obsessed with last year out last night. he treated me like shit but was really sexy and an amazing kisser and i dont think i'm quite over him.

but yea he had his tongue down some other girls throat dancing right next to me. and i had to stand there and pretend i hadn't noticed/didnt care. fml!

altho 2bh she did look like a walking STI. i hope he catches something, dickhead!

[jump]

saw someone i was practically obsessed with last year out last night. he treated me like shit but was really sexy and an amazing kisser and i dont think i'm quite over him.

but yea he had his tongue down some other girls throat dancing right next to me. and i had to stand there and pretend i hadn't noticed/didnt care. fml!

altho 2bh she did look like a walking STI. i hope he catches something, dickhead!

[lolbeck]

Went out last night. Spent a lot of the evening talking to a raaaather attractive young man with balloons down his top for a Hooters themed birthday party. He tried to kiss me but I turned my head and he looked a bit shocked. Tbf, I probably would have kissed him, buuuuut the best friend of the guy I've liked for about a year had her hawk-eye on me. So...I dunno.

The Hooters boy asked me to go out again tonight but I can't afford that.

And I'm still not over this guy I've liked for ages and arghhhhhh men.

[jump]

If you like him go out with him once you have some money, and if you're not over you're last guy maybe a rebound relationship would help?

Edited September 23, 2010 by jump

[Pogues Mcgogues]

Went out last night. Spent a lot of the evening talking to a raaaather attractive young man with balloons down his top for a Hooters themed birthday party. He tried to kiss me but I turned my head and he looked a bit shocked. Tbf, I probably would have kissed him, buuuuut the best friend of the guy I've liked for about a year had her hawk-eye on me. So...I dunno.

The Hooters boy asked me to go out again tonight but I can't afford that.

And I'm still not over this guy I've liked for ages and arghhhhhh men.

[jump]

Well if the guy you've liked for a year hasn't given any signals I'd give Hooter's boy a chance. It's obvious you quite liked Hooters Boy and it's obvious that he quite likes you. Has guy you've liked for a year made an effort on you? If not I'd say go with Hooters boy.

Just on experience for myself, I've lusted after folk when there was folk who made it clear they liked me and I ignored it. I dunno if you've kissed the guy you've liked for a year, but I kissed the girl I liked for a while kinda on off thing and I deicided I would keep at it. Looking back, I should've went for the folk who made it clear they liked me cause it wouldn't be one sided effort wise.

Obviously it's probably a different situation for you and that, but just my experience if it helps or not. Probably not tho.

[Pogues Mcgogues]

The key word here is folk and not girls

[lolbeck]

Well if the guy you've liked for a year hasn't given any signals I'd give Hooter's boy a chance. It's obvious you quite liked Hooters Boy and it's obvious that he quite likes you. Has guy you've liked for a year made an effort on you? If not I'd say go with Hooters boy.

Just on experience for myself, I've lusted after folk when there was folk who made it clear they liked me and I ignored it. I dunno if you've kissed the guy you've liked for a year, but I kissed the girl I liked for a while kinda on off thing and I deicided I would keep at it. Looking back, I should've went for the folk who made it clear they liked me cause it wouldn't be one sided effort wise.

Obviously it's probably a different situation for you and that, but just my experience if it helps or not. Probably not tho.

[jump]

We were seeing each other for a while around February / March, I suggested proper relationship and he said he'd like to but he was convinced he'd hurt me and didn't want to take the risk. Since then, he still flirts with me all the time, told me last week that he wanted to sex me and spends a lot of his time with his arm round me and stuff, but doesn't seem to want to commit.

I think Hooters boy was just trying to get into my undies.

And I don't think rebound relationship would help. I know for a fact I'd ditch anyone if there was a slight chance to get all cosy with the guy I've liked for ages :/

[kingjamma]

That's what a rebound relationship is, a few laughs to build your confidence and then jump out before it's serious.

[lolbeck]

That's what a rebound relationship is, a few laughs to build your confidence and then jump out before it's serious.

[Paul ™]

Things must be bad if people are taking dating advise from Pogo

[dakyras]

Things must be bad if people are taking dating advise from Pogo

[kingjamma]

Pogo's graduate career plan is to become Hitch.

[saratink]

Take a riskk (apart from sex, always use condoms) easier said than done, but your single, attractive, slim and boys seem to get attracted to you, so go for it

[lolbeck]

Take a riskk (apart from sex, always use condoms) easier said than done, but your single, attractive, slim and boys seem to get attracted to you, so go for it

[jump]

We were seeing each other for a while around February / March, I suggested proper relationship and he said he'd like to but he was convinced he'd hurt me and didn't want to take the risk. Since then, he still flirts with me all the time, told me last week that he wanted to sex me and spends a lot of his time with his arm round me and stuff, but doesn't seem to want to commit.

I think Hooters boy was just trying to get into my undies.

[lolbeck]

If non-hooters guy still flirting with you don't get your hopes up, every day I flirt with the girl in my cofee shops and flirt/put arm around my female friends/mate's girlfriends but I have no intention of sleeping with them, just fun.

Don't play games but go cold on non-hooters unless he wants a relationship and you don't have to have sex with either of them even if you're in a relationship. (This is something I am amazed at in general that some girls don't realise they have the upperhand but don't know how to play it)

From you 1st post I got the impression you're in 2 minds about the thing.

[spwan-of-the-devil]

But he doesn't flirt the same way everyone else flirts. I can't really explain it. It's just different.

And I can't really go cold on him because he's a pretty good mate of mine. And yeah, I know I don't have to have sex with anyone.

I'm in two minds about everything. I just don't know. I think I should stay away from men.

[ampersand]

Women are just as complicated though.. thats why we are all on here

[spwan-of-the-devil]

nah, i'm on here cos i'm shite!

[lolbeck]

Women are just as complicated though.. thats why we are all on here

[ampersand]

At least you admit it

[kingjamma]

Yes and no, depends what you mean by relationship. If I go out with a girl for a 3/4 dates I wouldn't say I'm in a relationship, I'm seeing someone but you can't really I'm rebound seeing somneone. Just wording.

[spwan-of-the-devil]

The human race is complicated. Damned people!