singles thread

[gemstarrr]

whats happening with you/him?

[markeee]

i dont really know thats the thing. i texted him last week saying we should just be friends and after a few days i felt better for it because i felt like my feelings were too strong for him when hes so far away. but now we've gone back to texting how we were like before, more than friends and these feelings are coming back. and i have no idea if he feels the same and i can't ask him because i dont want to scare him off

yes that's a good thing hope it works out for you though!

it's probably me just being paranoid, i've learnt to expect the worst so i'm not dissapointed!

[gemstarrr]

wheres he live and where do yu live? Is it likely you'll see him again?!

[rabid]

hes in london and i'm in sheffield. only 2 hours on the train but its like 80 quid so he usually drives up with mates cos hes got friends at uni here.

i'll definately see him again but not til the end of november i think. which seems so long away! and i cant really judge how i feel about him properly til i see him in person again. i'm kind of in limbo, feel like i can't get with anyone else til i see him :/

[greenfairy43]

Or about £20 on the Megabus.

[ampersand]

You'd have to try hard to spend that much! More like a fiver!!

[rabid]

You'd have to try hard to spend that much! More like a fiver!!

[sifi]

Howsabout meeting him halfway? You could have a romantic weekend in, erm, Northampton.

[gemstarrr]

Howsabout meeting him halfway? You could have a romantic weekend in, erm, Northampton.

[jump]

also anyone got any advice for letting someone down gently? he's a mate from work and won't leave me alone and it's really starting to annoy me. he even got my phone number from the work facebook (supposed to be used for swapping shifts) and wont stop texting me! don't want to make it awkward at work though and i do like him as a friend :/

Edited November 3, 2010 by jump

[Jaybles]

Another amazing weekend with this girl in Manchester......was so hard to get in the car and head back to Portsmouth

Hopefully we will have a winter sun holiday in the next month or so.....but sometime this week she could find out her company want her in shanghai for a year, starting almost immediately.

So who knows where this one is heading.

[RABun]

And find somewhere around the old place to hide some prawns.

[saratink]

You'd have to try hard to spend that much! More like a fiver!!

[rachbon]

the usual , met a few girls last week, meant to go out with one on thursday but she had to work..so asked girl num 2 out - not seeing either of them so figured it's ok

asked another girl (girl from before) out for a meal next week-had to be next week bit short of cash atm, if she'd said this week itd be a KFC bargain bucket! ha

saw a super fit blonde in Manhattans last night, really tall, skinny blonde girl, had planned on speaking to her, but she left before I could

girl 2 stayed over mine, but forgot her phone..so obviously I had to read her messages..and yea she's seeing like 4/5 guys..some filthy messages on her phone!

Edited November 3, 2010 by _rachelbon

[sadwitch]

Screw gently as it still gives them hope but what I'd suggest to do is start talking about London Boy to him, as a boyfriend should enough for him to loose intrest without any hard feelings.

[rexclark]

Oh dear Markeee, have you learned nothing?

A bit of friendly advice. Don't treat women as objects. Every woman you talk about is just a description not a person, tall skinny girl, sixe 8 girl etc... fair enough attraction is a major thing but not everything. Stop being so f**king shallow!

As for going through a girls things and looking at her txts, what are you thinking? These things are clearly private and none of your business. What would you have said if she caught you? Sorry I'm a nosey bastard?

You come across really badly on here but I recon you're probably not a bad bloke, just incredibly stupid at times.

I'll finish by saying, If I was in your shoes I'd change my complete attitude to women and dating or you will end up with no one and all you'll have to show for all your dating is a bad dose of the clap.

Edited November 3, 2010 by rexclark

[markeee]

Another amazing weekend with this girl in Manchester......was so hard to get in the car and head back to Portsmouth

Hopefully we will have a winter sun holiday in the next month or so.....but sometime this week she could find out her company want her in shanghai for a year, starting almost immediately.

So who knows where this one is heading.

[Pogues Mcgogues]

nowadays? i'd have to book about two months in advance to get a fiver to invernes from edinburgh single last i checked. and edinburgh to manchester was about 35 return a month in advance...

[ampersand]

I got Glasgow to London for £25 and that was with National Express, megabus was dearer.

I reckon you just gotta shop around a bit.

The train, if you do it right, can near enough be got at £35 return if booked well in advance tho.

[markeee]

national express takes forever though cos does it not go to glasgow from edinburgh for long distances. ridiculous.

people keep telling me how you can get cheap trains. my mate said he can get down to birmingham for a quid from edinburgh but i've still to see it.

[Cardboard Box City]

I f**king hate bus/coaches.

Why don't you just get the train and not pay?

[Pogues Mcgogues]

national express takes forever though cos does it not go to glasgow from edinburgh for long distances. ridiculous.

people keep telling me how you can get cheap trains. my mate said he can get down to birmingham for a quid from edinburgh but i've still to see it.

[saratink]

I've always thought trains were a rip off.. I've never been able to find a cheap fayre.. I think thats because there isn't any stations near me that qualify for the cheap fayre thing..

[gemstarrr]

should not text when pissed.

or do anything really. got with someones reallyyy hott tonight but didnt even get their no cos mate lost her purse and phone so stayed behind she was in bits

bad times doesnt look like rtheyve been recovered in clean up l

[ampersand]

I f**king hate bus/coaches.

Why don't you just get the train and not pay?