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Went out Wednesday night for a friend's birthday. Frisky housemate had nothing to do that night (his friends had gone to the cinema without him because he's got literally no money), so I basically gave him a free pass and said I'd buy him as many drinks as he liked and he could pay me back when he's got the money. So he got very very wasted and now owes me an extra £40.

I saw the guy I liked for a looooong time a lot that night. He asked me to stroke his hair because he'd had a haircut, and asked me to go out the next day because he wanted my opinion on a new shirt he'd be wearing. He gave me lots of hugs. And then I saw him over at the bar a little later, skipped over to him and gave him a hug. Then frisky housemate appeared out of nowhere and started chatting absolute nonsense, as he always does when he's had far too much to drink, and the guy I liked for ages started laughing, rolling his eyes and doing that blahblahblah thing with his hand. And then he leant over and said to me "are you listening to him or looking at me?", and I said I was looking at him (because I was, I honestly had no idea what the frisky housemate was saying), and he asked why, and I said "because you're very nice to look at". He blushed, told me I couldn't say things like that because he was drunk and horny, and then said "I'll leave you to your boyfriend". I said he wasn't my boyfriend and he said "yeah whatever", laughed and went to talk to his mates. And about 4 other people referred to frisky housemate as my boyfriend that night.

At some point, quite near the end of the night, when I'd had many many hugs from many different male friends, some of whom kissed the top of my head or hugged me for a bit longer than friends usually do, one who actually tried to kiss me, the frisky housemate came over to me and said "So it looks like pretty much all the guys at Pittville (our campus) want to f**k you", and I said "I dunno, if you think so", and he said "it's obvious. I feel pretty lucky", and I said "so you should do", and went off to dance with the birthday girl.

And, then when I was laid in bed at 4am once I'd eventually gotten home, the guy I liked for a loooong time sent me texts saying he'd like to do naughty things to me. And then he texted me last night asking if I was going to go out. And then when I said I wasn't, we exchanged a few texts discussing when we'll see each other again, and he said "look forward to seeing you next wednesday then". And oh dear :unsure:

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Went out Wednesday night for a friend's birthday. Frisky housemate had nothing to do that night (his friends had gone to the cinema without him because he's got literally no money), so I basically gave him a free pass and said I'd buy him as many drinks as he liked and he could pay me back when he's got the money. So he got very very wasted and now owes me an extra £40.

I saw the guy I liked for a looooong time a lot that night. He asked me to stroke his hair because he'd had a haircut, and asked me to go out the next day because he wanted my opinion on a new shirt he'd be wearing. He gave me lots of hugs. And then I saw him over at the bar a little later, skipped over to him and gave him a hug. Then frisky housemate appeared out of nowhere and started chatting absolute nonsense, as he always does when he's had far too much to drink, and the guy I liked for ages started laughing, rolling his eyes and doing that blahblahblah thing with his hand. And then he leant over and said to me "are you listening to him or looking at me?", and I said I was looking at him (because I was, I honestly had no idea what the frisky housemate was saying), and he asked why, and I said "because you're very nice to look at". He blushed, told me I couldn't say things like that because he was drunk and horny, and then said "I'll leave you to your boyfriend". I said he wasn't my boyfriend and he said "yeah whatever", laughed and went to talk to his mates. And about 4 other people referred to frisky housemate as my boyfriend that night.

At some point, quite near the end of the night, when I'd had many many hugs from many different male friends, some of whom kissed the top of my head or hugged me for a bit longer than friends usually do, one who actually tried to kiss me, the frisky housemate came over to me and said "So it looks like pretty much all the guys at Pittville (our campus) want to f**k you", and I said "I dunno, if you think so", and he said "it's obvious. I feel pretty lucky", and I said "so you should do", and went off to dance with the birthday girl.

And, then when I was laid in bed at 4am once I'd eventually gotten home, the guy I liked for a loooong time sent me texts saying he'd like to do naughty things to me. And then he texted me last night asking if I was going to go out. And then when I said I wasn't, we exchanged a few texts discussing when we'll see each other again, and he said "look forward to seeing you next wednesday then". And oh dear :unsure:

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If you're looking for advice, I'd suggest just kicking frisky housemate in the bollocks from the sound of it. He sounds like (unless he's a complete insufferable knobhead - to a proper degree) he's quite in to you. Other guys are very much not welcome. Depending on his own level of self-esteem then you flirting with someone else in his presence will be a right kick in the bollocks. If this carries on then you may wish for clarification on whatever. If you really are (both) just happy pissing about then by all means be happy getting it on with whoever, otherwise (ostensibly) young frisky may get hurt.

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beck - it seems obvious that both guys like you, but i think you need to get frisky housemate to make his mind up! he doesn't want a relationship with you, but doesn't want you to be with anyone else.. ? that's not really fair. you can do what you want with whoever you want since you're not actyally going out with FH.

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beck - it seems obvious that both guys like you, but i think you need to get frisky housemate to make his mind up! he doesn't want a relationship with you, but doesn't want you to be with anyone else.. ? that's not really fair. you can do what you want with whoever you want since you're not actyally going out with FH.

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Oh aye. Thing is, I don't even really want to do anything else with anyone else. I told FH that I might be going out tonight, and he looked a little bothered by that and sort of tried to persuade me to stay in. I'd like him to make up his mind but I somehow don't think he'll be doing that any time soon :unsure:

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Not saying you should give him an ultimatum, but if you don't want the headf**k to go on and on and on, maybe have 'the talk' with him about where you're going?

To be frank, if he isn't messing you about & really does like you, he needs to grow some balls.

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The only reason I haven't had the talk with him is because I know what he'll say, I know he'll get scared and back off. He's being a silly little child about it all, but luckily for him, I've not had any proper offers otherwise. I'm fine with things as they are for the time being.

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