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nothing at all, just joshing around!

plan is, i have half day tomorrow so ill be done by 11am, go get a hair cut and then hit the city for all day drinks. saturday take my neice shopping then go out on a date with this bird i have knows a while but only recently she has started showing interest, she is comine Isle of wight which is good and then sunday got a football match

whats you up to?

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how fars sheffield for ya? Sushi before a drunken night is never a good move i gotta say
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It's not the quality of destination that's the dispute, it's the lack of willingness to splash out £3 max for a taxi home!

Besides Guildford is not without it's appeal when you go out in Woking every week. Never been out in Farnborough so couldn't comment.

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Ok, I have a question.

If a mate told you he couldn't come the pub because his girlfriend has a sore throat, how would you deal with it?

Let it go, or tell him to stop being a pussy?

(A little background of the "situation" he started seeing the girl in September, was engaged in December and I haven't seen him without her since before they started going out)

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Ok, I have a question.

If a mate told you he couldn't come the pub because his girlfriend has a sore throat, how would you deal with it?

Let it go, or tell him to stop being a pussy?

(A little background of the "situation" he started seeing the girl in September, was engaged in December and I haven't seen him without her since before they started going out)

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Ok, I have a question.

If a mate told you he couldn't come the pub because his girlfriend has a sore throat, how would you deal with it?

Let it go, or tell him to stop being a pussy?

(A little background of the "situation" he started seeing the girl in September, was engaged in December and I haven't seen him without her since before they started going out)

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I'd let him do what he wants to do but remind him that you should always make time to see your friends as well as making time for your beloved if you want those friends to still be your friends once the beloved runs off with another man/falls out of love with you/annoys you so much in the end you throw her out/leaves you for messing with her sister etc etc.
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Stop asking him on nights out, I got sick of my best friend constantly not being allowed to gigs, pub, watch football. Eventually I told him i wasn't going to ask him to do things anymore and told him to give me a call when he is free/girlfriend is on a night out so he is actually allowed out.

Harsh but fair lol

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i hate it when your pals just ditch you cause they get a boyfriend!

my best pal did that to me and i got fed up being the only one making any effort, so i ended up not speaking to her for a year. i knew she'd miss me before i'd miss her and i was right. we managed to sort everything and we're really good friends again.

i've been in this situation so many times, my pals ditching me for other people (sometimes it's other half, sometiems it's just new pals) and it always seems to end the same way. i just complentely stop talking to them. sometiems they come crawling back, sometimes they don't. it's their loss anyway, i'm a good friend and if people don't appreciate it then they can get to f**k!

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I've tried that before with a different mate and almost got disowned as a friend! He was way too protective of that relationship and that was (according his best man - they got married last year) because he's actually gay but didn't realise until after they had a child together.

Anyway that's not gonna happen with this guy, but I will have a word if I can tear him away from her for 5 minutes.... It may sound harsh but I really don't see the appeal of her, she's not a "looker" and is quite irritating, I put it down to the fact that he's 23 and this is his first proper "relationship", self esteem issues are rife in my circle of friends (mainly because most of us went through school having the self-esteem kicked out of us) which is why as soon as someone shows an interest they do whatever they're told through fear of being alone forever.

I seem to be the exception B)

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Works as a theory, but it was/is someone I've know for 12 years, used to sit next to in school, was more or less my best mate. It's actually quite depressing to think of it that way, but now that you mention it I don't think he came out for my 21st B)
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Works as a theory, but it was/is someone I've know for 12 years, used to sit next to in school, was more or less my best mate. It's actually quite depressing to think of it that way, but now that you mention it I don't think he came out for my 21st B)
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I've been there, and it does hurt. When my mate (who I'd been friends with since we were about 10) had her first child we slowly but surely grew apart.......I tried to keep in touch with her, I can handle baby/child/husband talk when I have to and I was willing to make the effort for her. However, once she got with a new circle of friends who also had children and husbands she forgot about me. It was always me phoning her to find out how she was, always me sending the first text, always me still sending birthday and christmas presents to the kids but not even getting a thank you in return (she actually said to me one christmas that she'd forgot I'd bought them anything :D ). Eventually I stopped, I can take a hint. I haven't spoken to her properly for around 5 years :D
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